8 Gs installed. Strongly considering adding another 8 Gs, mostly 'cause it's easily done. I let myself be talked out of 16 Gs when I put this computer together (which is only about a month ago). Now I kinda regret it. I also regret not spending more on the graphics card, but it's much easier and justifiable to add the memory than to replace a graphics card I just bought... I do have the 64 bit version of Windows 7 on this machine (Windows Ultimate), but as I understand things, I'm not using it because of the 8 Gs of RAM available.
If memory serves me, VRAM is virtual RAM, or a portion of the hard drive set aside for RAM. Not sure how to check that... Also not sure how having the SS drives affects that, though I do have a conventional HD as well.
Made the changes suggested above. Been "testing" (i.e., joining the Thieve's Guild...) for only about 20 minutes. I did have one crash. Reloaded and continued on my way.
Edit: I'll also note that these are proper crashes. The game stops running immediately and entirely. That's as opposed to the stuck screen I was getting before that required Task Manager to end.
EDIT: DOH! We posted at the same time. Don't make the following change if you're on 32bit Windows.
64 bit: Good! Your OP says Windows 7 32 bit. ENBseries can get you a little extra memory if you change one of the enblocal.ini settings I posted earlier:
[MEMORY]
ExpandSystemMemoryX64=true <-- Change to true
EDIT: You can do all the following...
Did you get the HiRes packs to work?
If you got enbseries and SSME in, you have (almost) the most stable base Skyrim possible. I would suspect a new game to be very reliable, but we can also look for problems in your savegames, if you downloaded Wrye Bash. Savegames, basically, remember every mod installed during that same game. What that means is that you should not uninstall mods during a game unless you go back to a savegame made before the mod was installed, or you follow the mod author's safe uninstall directions. This is probably the number one reason people have issues with Skyrim.
I don't want to drag you through more than you want (we gotta PLAY Skyrim at some point), so I'll leave a few tips here that may still help your CTD issues or stability in general:
1. In the Skyrim\Data directory there should be an SKSE folder. There may be an skse.ini file in that SKSE folder. If not, you can just make them. Regardless, you can add the following setting to Data\SKSE\skse.ini without causing any issues and it may help with or prevent script problems:
[General]
ClearInvalidRegistrations=1
2. There is a bug in the game engine (several, in fact) that has the potential to cause a CTD even with default ugrids settings and it is fixed by this mod. You don't need to change ugrids at all for it to work, but it only fixes that one bug (may not fix your problem).
3. Use either Skyrim launcher Options OR Nvidia control panel to set AA and AF, but don't have them on in both places.
4. The Skyrim Total Enhancement Project (STEP) has THE best information on seriously modding Skyrim, IMHO.
5. Don't tweak your ini files, unless its necessary for a mod or its on the STEP website. Or, 4 out of 5 Nexus helpers say its a good idea. Or its me. 
Let me know if you want to look at the savegames in Bash (it will tell you what esm/esp files the savegame depends on; restoring a missing mod MAY fix some savegame problems, but you'll have to live with that mod.)
Edited by Lord Garon, 11 March 2014 - 04:55 AM.