The ratings system by the ESRB (in the US) is not a forbiddance of any kind - and that is where a lot of people make a major mistake by assuming it is (the reasons a lot of us equate the ratings systems to protecting kids, is that is the spin they used - and still use, to show how good an idea it is). The only real purpose of the rating system is to give people a heads-up as to what is in the game and help people who are buying the games either for themselves or their children determine whether or not it is appropriate for them. Now, there are some stores that will not sell a M Rated game to kids (Wal-Mart and K-Mart are good examples - they won't even open the case for you if you are too young). The best use of the rating system I have seen is GameStop who, right before you have to pay, inform you that the game you are buying has such and such a rating because it contains this, this, and this - do you still want to buy it? I actually saw a clerk in GameStop do this and and it caused a kid's grandmother to NOT buy the kid Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas because she, like most people, didn't read the rating on the back. When she found out what was in it, she decided the kid didn't need to have it (and this kid was seriously pissed about it).
All it boils down to is your preference and/or comfort level when it comes to you and your children (or any child for that matter). I would let my kids play God of War, Grand Theft Auto, Oblivion, Fallout, and Dragon Age without batting an eye - I am okay with the subject matter and there is substance to these games. One game I would never let a child play is Manhunt, which is essentially a snuff game (the plot is basically you are in a prison whose warden is televising the inmates killing each other and you have to murder as many people as you can as brutally as you can over the course of the game) - and in my opnion, this game should have never been made.
As far as mods go, there are only a few mods I have from the TESNexus I would disable on my kids: Estrus, Basic Instinct, SexDarkness, EroBlivion, and CTAddAPose-Bondage Sex. Essentially, any mod is fine by me as long as it isn't a hardcore sex mod (and there are a few). Nudity, I'm fine with as far as children are concerned - the human body is a beautiful thing. Violence is okay as well - this is an adventure game where you have to defeat bad guys. Sex is not necessary - the kids will learn about that in due time (and notice I said "not necessary" rather than "not okay". So I don't think the Nexus sites should be marked as "Mature" because of it - besides, there's enough mods I don't consider as "Mature Content" to offset this.
The bottom line here is that it is up to you to decide what is and is not appropriate for you and your children. Not the game makers, not mod sites, not stores, and certainly not society (just turn on the television for the reason). When you concieved that little one who is now standing in front of you, you made an unspoken promise that you would give them everything they needed to grow up to become a good and decent human beings - you would give to them morals, wisdom, and guidance that would shape them into the people you wish you could have become (which is a parent's job). Know that as your children look up at you, they are looking up to you for reasons other than the fact that you are bigger than they are - and that is what being a parent is all about.
Now, if you want to leave kids out of the picture and focus on yourself, that makes it easier. If you don't want a game with gore and nudity - don't buy it. It's called "freedom of choice" exercise that freedom like mad. I myself don't feel like seeing some things, so I make sure I don't see them. I'll use Slof's mods for a for instance: most of her mods glorify the male anatomy (she seems to like men as much as I like women and I say "more power to her"



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