I find it is usually wisest to accept that the Lord of the Land is he who passes down the laws.
Even if the rules don't explicitly state it to be so, one should always strive to conduct themselves in such a manner as they would were they speaking to another person face-to-face. Unless you're a jerkbag. Then you should probably just not say anything, ever, for the rest of all time.
Anyways,
One can argue, in many different ways, that the people of the community are an inseparable part of that community... and that without them the concept of the community would become nothing... but the truth is quite the opposite. One or two individuals take offense to the community, and so they create some kind of controversy. Conversely, those who disagree with those members rise up to the defense of the community and its rules, while those prone to rebelliousness and anti-authority activities will go out of their way to stir up more trouble.
The result is that the community solidifies, and outcasts those that rise up and attempt to cast down the system.
Revolution is relatively rare. When it happens, it usually happens suddenly, and in a singular burst of violence and aggression. Revolutions happen when new ideas bottle up and explode outward throughout the group uncontrollably. But unless the majority are made to perceive that they're being abused or mistreated or criminally violated... the odds of inciting a rebellion are slim to none.
What you do, instead, is unite those who are faithful to the 'Old Ways' against you, the common enemy. Anyone who might have disagreed before turns on you, and singles you out as their new enemy... joining forces in the effort to destroy you.
It's surprising, really, just how similar a private website, with a flourishing community, is quite akin to a feudal nation...
I rather like that someone previously described it as such. It's the perfect analogy.