Im on solstheim trying to sneak into Severin Manor but Lydia wont stop following me. I tell her to wait, nothing, I point somewhere for her to wait or tell her to do something, she immediately stops and runs back as soon as I cancel order mode, and even if I try to dismiss her I get the message saying I've dismissed my follower, but she still follows me and her dialogue options are still the same. I tried recruiting a mercenary and he took the gold but didnt move, now when I try to talk to him he just goes "ready to go again?" but I dont actually get any options to select, and Lydia still follows me.
I think this was caused by me using Amazing Follower Tweaks, which unfortunately I didnt know wasnt ported correctly until after I used it for a bit. Or it could be because I resurrected Lydia...twice, while the mod was active because it broke her "downed" state. I've tried all sorts of console commands: set playerfollowercount to 0, resetAI, disable->enable, recycleactor. The only one that had any effect was recycleactor, but that made her disapear and not come back, which is not what I want. Dont suggest that I kill her, Im trying to fix her, not completely get rid of her. Any ideas?