Yup... I'm not sure anyone knew about the resetquest command, but it works. Also, as far as my problem, I found if you reset the quest, then talk to her, tab out before you pick any options that give you the quest, then use setstage XXXX 100, it completes the quest, gives you Azura's star, which you can use a command to remove, and she'll join your party without a 2nd copy of the quest being added to your book. So I fixed myself perfectly. I'm rather pleased. Now if I could just find a way to get her to wear the circlet of destruction I bought for her as well as hooded robes (she looks a lot better with the hood on, yesh)