Thank you talveren! Your load order works in OBMM perfectly! You can get it from the nexus. http://oblivion.nexusmods.com/mods/22368. Once you've got it installed, you'll want to run start -> all programs -> Wrye Bash -> Wyre Bash (Standalone) - Oblivion. Wrye bash is a sort of catch all of useful Oblivion utilities. If Hickory comments, he's the expert and I'd listen to him if he does. I use it and it's helped me troubleshoot a lot of my mod problems. Basically, once you have Wrye Bash installed, it will read your Oblivion\Data folder and generate a list of mods that will show up in that mods tab I talked about. It integrates with BOSS so you can launch BOSS from it (once you've made sure the integration is enabled) and it will get the load order from that. Make sure your mods are all checked off in a green box at least before you create the bashed patch (see second half of video) A green checkbox with a check mark in it means installed AND activated. The first half of this video is about that integration with BOSS:
Eventually, we're going to tell you to create a bashed patch because it helps resolve a lot of conflicts. It may be that's all you need to do, but without seeing your load order we won't be able to tell.