Without reading the last 6 pages... If I got what you said right, you have the geeky look and you have joined a debate about something perverted. I guess you might be flagged as pervert, if the debate is with people you don't know and they don't know you. On the sidenote, as to how "bad and wrong" this is comming from women... You have never look at a peroxide blonde with huge brests and somewhere in your mind had a though "Wow, she is prolly stupid" pop up? Yeah, I though so. Stereotypes are a way how to categorize people you don't know. Most people do it, even unintentionaly. You see a skinny guy with glases - oh, look, a nerd. You see dyed blonde girl - oh, look a Barbie, you see a fat, sweaty bald man - oh, look a goverment official (well, that might vary depending on where you live). Of course, saying it out loud is not very...tact.