well, its well known that bethesda patched skyrim to use 4gb's now, however, as the title might imply, its not doing so for me, sure enough everytime skyrim takes up about 1.8gb's in memory, it freezes. doesn't even crash, so I have to ctrl-alt-delete it away. Any suggestions? the 4gb mod also didn't help WHY MUST I ALWAYS TROUBLESHOOT ALWAYS