Il I tried out NFF on a new game but unfortunately Elisif and Balgruuf still do not give me the dialogue options to follow even though it said the NPC could follow after using Force Follower in the MCM. Though, I tried it on other regular NPCs (not Jarls yet) and it did work. I’m not sure how you went about getting them to respond when you tested it but I’ll play around with it a some more. I'm probably missing something or maybe there's a mod conflict. Anyway, I appreciate the recommendation. Some of these features are pretty nice. Try removing them from the JobJarl faction, tell them to follow you, and then add them back to the faction. Looks like the Jarl faction prevents the follow me dialogue from appearing. This should allow them to be a follower and still work for the Thane quests. I would make sure you've at least done the intro stuff with Balgruff and killed the first dragon though, chances are something will break if he's a follower while trying to go talk to Farengar and the guard that shows up. https://en.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Factions_J