I'd also like to know, I haven't advanced in this game in weeks, lol. Modbros, pls. I tried downloading the mod tools but, to be honest, I don't even know what they _are_, let alone how to use them.
There's another active thread about this right now. No one has figured it out yet, no amount of altering variables seems to be able to fix it, but it is possible to have Panam acknowledge you as her lover at the end and score a few pieces of the unique dialogue. You need Cyber Engine Tweaks and the following commands: Game.SetDebugFact ("q114_panam_love", 1) Game.SetDebugFact ("sq027_panam_lover", 1) your mileage may vary.
Edit: isn't this actually known to not be fully functional? Yeah, you don't get the flirting or the sex scene with her but at the end of the mission chain, it automatically puts you into a relationship with her and you'll receive messages from her as if you romanced her the whole time. While I couldn't care less about the sec scenes, I basically refuse to go on without the unique dialogue and whatnot from her questline. It's bizarre how hard this seems to be to change with the console for something that should only be operating on one tag. (male body).
I was really, really hoping that this mod would immediately follow the Judy mod. If I could figure out how the quest system works I'd try to make the mod myself, but I'm not even sure how to view the files.