Hey guys, I recently tried to harden Leliana. To do this, I did her personal quest and talked to her at the party camp, where I told her that she just is that way, she shoudn't ignore that part of her personality (the hardening option). Afterwards, I talked to her again to bed her. But she started the "soft" dialogue, where she told me how I was a gift of the maker and so on. Why is that? Can I somehow be sure she is hardened/unhardened? I also tried giving her the mod item "tome of macchiavelli" that hardens the companion. But to no avail, I still got the "soft" dialogue... Can somebody help me with this? I would really like to change her character this way...