i can't believe i have to post this and ask and that there isnt a quick page i could find on patching and the how to's because it is apparently more in depth than i thought. ive scowered google and the forums. generally i just would like to know how patching works. (with NMM if possible) specifically, i am using requiem and trying to get SIC, Guard Dialogue Overhaul, Interesting NPCs, Falskaar, and Sands of Time working with requiem. SIC was causing consistent ctds so i removed it and thought that the others with their patches were working. but of course not, i still cant talk to guards (every single one says Wait I know you... and looks at me) so this leads me to believe falskaar is also not actually patched nor any others and without them causing ctds, i dont know what kind of havoc they actually are doing to my game. I am using NMM and BOSS. this is my order currently Skyrim.esm=1Update.esm=1Unofficial Skyrim Patch.esp=1Dawnguard.esm=1Unofficial Dawnguard Patch.esp=1HearthFires.esm=1Unofficial Hearthfire Patch.esp=1Dragonborn.esm=1Unofficial Dragonborn Patch.esp=1Falskaar.esm=1ApachiiHair.esm=1RaceCompatibility.esm=1ETaC - RESOURCES.esm=1DSAMG - Miraak Music Fixes.esp=1SkyUI.esp=1AHZmoreHUD.esp=1TKDodge.esp=1Immersive Orc Strongholds.esp=1Immersive Solstheim.esp=1PP_OgmundsTomb.esp=1Snowbound Acres.esp=1Guard Dialogue Overhaul.esp=1ETaC - Complete.esp=1ETaC - Dragon Bridge South.esp=1Open Cities Skyrim.esp=1Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Dungeons.esp=1Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Dawnguard Interiors.esp=1Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Major City Exteriors.esp=1Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Major City Interiors.esp=1Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Minor Cities and Town Interiors.esp=1Better Stealth AI for Followers.esp=1Sneak Tools.esp=1Sneak Tools Vanilla Hoods.esp=1Sneak Tools Vanilla Masks.esp=13DNPC.esp=1Companion_Ari.esp=1CharacterMakingExtender.esp=1EnhancedCharacterEdit.esp=1GreenWaterFix_Compatible.esp=1JKs Markarth.esp=1JKs Solitude.esp=1JKs Whiterun.esp=1JKs Windhelm.esp=1DawnofRiften.esp=1JKs - Open Cities Skyrim.esp=1reactiveguards.esp=1Requiem.esp=1NRM Falskaar - Requiem Patch.esp=13DNPC - Requiem Patch.esp=1Requiem - Guard Dialogue Overhaul Patch.esp=1Requiem - DB - SOT - OBIS Patch.esp=0Requiem - DB - SOT.esp=0Requiem - OBIS - SoT Patch.esp=0Requiem - SoT - Better Vampires Patch.esp=0Requiem - Sot - CRF Patch.esp=0Requiem - SoT - Hard Times Patch.esp=0Requiem - SoT - RSChildren Patch.esp=0Requiem - Sot - SBF Patch.esp=0Requiem - SoT - Skytest.esp=0Requiem - SoT - SPTOlderPeople Patch.esp=0Requiem - SoT Patch.esp=1 if theres any other info that might help im at the readyappreciate any help/tips apologies if this is not the right place to post this