Falling4Ever

Half way through before i realised somewthing was wrong and would hate to start over. Theres an in camp conversation apparently somewhere around redcliffe where they spend the night together ( never happened) and now im stuck in a loop, i gave her the black grimoire and she asked me to kill Flemeth. Chose not to, dont know if that affects anything, but the grimoire now shows up in my backpack as an item and not as gift and there is no dialouge change just the old at your command and thats it. Also some of the byplay between the other party members dont occur. Theres a lot of mods, (what can i say!) including conversation tweaks and morrigan restoration mod anyone got any clues apart from dismantling all the mods or starting all over again without them! :(