Use this to disable games for windows live. It causes nothing but problems and some mods simply wont work with it anyway. Be sure to use it to also move your DLC into the non-live folders. Next, use FOMM to move your mods into the order suggested in the FOIP load order guidelines. You can use FOMM's auto sort feature to get it into basic order, but I'd change it to be more like their guidelines once that's done. Next, activate all the mods and patches, and use FO3 Edit to create a merged patch. This is *required* for the FOIP WMK compatibility patches. After that, run FO3's masterupdate function (by making a copy of the FO3edit and renaming it "FO3MasterUpdate, then running it. You should also make another copy of FO3Edit and rename it FO3MasterRestore in case you ever want to undo the changes of MasterUpdate, but don't run that now.). Once that's done let me know if you're still crashing. I've been running FWE, WMK, MMM, project beauty, and a dozen other mods together for months (although I too didn't bother with EVE), and I hardly ever crash.