What if after the person agrees to marry you it starts a new quest line for things that need to be accomplished before you can start the ceremony, maybe find certain items (i.e. something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, maybe with a comedic twist.) also your Fiance would become your follower for the quest, maybe and yes indeed a spouse needs to be worth more than gold and a free meal/sleeping bonus. maybe responsibilities back? he/she sends you on random quests to fetch or deliver something. more special items that are marriage/ family related. I fancy myself a bit of a writer from time to time, but not a modder at all. If someone was looking to make this mod I would be willing to offer any help I could.