JeffZ28

This this this. I've never played a female character in a TES game and I never will. It's fine if you do, but don't turn it into an anime that you have control of.

Really any of them are fine. I've played with nearly all of them. The biggest factor in your FPS (at least mine with a 2GB 6970) is the Ambient Occlusion. With that tool Xescream linked, you can turn it off by clicking the checkbox and you'll see a great jump in your FPS.

At least that looks somewhat lore friendly though!