Sorry to hear about all that i guess i was lucky for the most part i went to a school and yet i was the odd one out seeing how i was white in a mostly black school and well some mexicans and yet i had lots of freinds.
Though i suppose in those days people where taught to respect and care for others as it was not the same as i got older,as i got older i noticed more of the groups of kids you know the usual rich kids,nerds,ect.
I on the other hand was more of loner as i got into i suppose it kept things simple as i did chose a side or group.I did however learn that if you look like your about to go postal people do leave you alone so that worked for me i still had freinds just not many freinds as i learned that having a lot of freinds does not mean you belong real freinds are rare and few and that is what i had for the most part
I also was taught to ignore what people say,as i did not allow what people thought of me bother me as i learned that no matter what i would have done/said i was not going to change me to fit someone else's idea of who i should be. I also learned that sometimes standing up for yourself also meant once in awhile getting into a fight with someone i did not always win but i faught hard and made sure the other person felt pain and usually they left me alone. You can not do that anymore as you risk getting kicked out of school,arrested or worse charged with assualt they have taken all the power away from the victim and gave it to the bully as now you can not even stand up for yourself without being punished as if not being bullied was not enough to deal with yet they wonder why people are killing themselves what other choice do they feel they have?.
When i went to school a good old ass kicking showed anyone who pushed it to far that they where going to catch my rath and the rath of my freinds as they would step in as well. Now you can not do anything but ignore it but that does not work for everyone although i will not understand why it is that way now i do see the problems.
Just remember they are only words and ignore them in most cases they will move on to someone else i hate to say it that way but not much else you can do unless you want to stand up to them. Life is cruel but life is also great,it is what you make of it,if you make life all about others and what they think of you,you are not living life and it will always be hell.
STAND UP TO BULLIES TELL THEM YOU WILL NOT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND IF YOU KEEP PUSHING IT I WILL BEAT WHAT LITTLE BRAINS ARE LEFT IN THAT HEAD OF YOURS