Brute force. My husband clicked "disable mod" (the red circle/slash icon) in NMM for each mod we have enabled in turn, and started a new game, skipping quickly to attribute pt allocation. Same thing. OK, he clicked "enable mod" (the green check icon) and went to the next mod we had enabled. He couldn't establish that disabling any of them solved it, so he went on to the one he had installed with DA Updater -- RL Swan Song. (Now I admit: it's worth noting that he actually installed that in the middle of his last game, and he didn't notice any such problem!) When he somehow disabled that (I'm not clear on the details), the next game he started didn't have the prob. (Remember, I had started the game where I observed the bug and played through to Ostagar, in order to define its behavior.) When I tried to resume that game, I got "This saved game cannot be loaded. It requires the following content:" -- followed by a list of 8 mods that NMM reports as installed & enabled. Well, in playing around for a complete report here, I discovered that when I completely deleted one of the mods and then re-downloaded & enabled it, DA stopped complaining about it. So I now have something to do for the others! Maybe the list of mods that somehow got disabled is helpful: LRS (Leliana Romance Scenes) Obsidian's Nobler Noble 2 Quartermaster Tolby Romance Bench * Summoning Portal Grey Warden Weddings Epilogue Events Framework ** Two-Spec Sten * Romance Bench = Alistair Romance Eavesdropping Alpha-4613-ALPHA ** Epilogue Events Framework = The Grey Warden Weddings - Alistair- plus Male Cousland and Anora - Epilogue Events Framework OTOH, I'm pretty sure I have played through a game with almost all of them installed & enabled prior to this -- all but the "Romance Bench." One more add: I said the problem was with Swan Song, partly because no one has posted a complaint about double attribute pts with the Eavesdropping mod, while others have indeed done so with Swan Song. Add-on to the add-on: I forgot about the 9th mod, the one that was missing from the NMM list altogether and I re-downloaded. That was also a Tinimaus mod, Alistair Romance - The Steamy Bits, and again, I have not played a game with it before, and again, no one has complained about this bug with it before now.