[Is there a Modding instruction guide?]

Hello all.

I've tried to make various personal mods to put crafting furniture into houses I use. One example, the Sewing Basket from Clothing Craft into my Elysium Estate house. Ive read several replies on google
that say to use Creation Kit, put the item in the house, then save it as a patch and run... I've done that, and it looks good IN CREATION KIT. When I add the mod to my load order (after the programs it effects), nothing happens, as though I've never added the mod.

Is there a NON-youtube instructions I can find/follow as to how to do this, and what I may be doing wrong? I find many of the youtube videos are either by people that can't stay on focus as to the tutorial, or don't quite cover what I need.... even if it is close.

[Trying to create a personal patch]

Already did that.

[Trying to create a personal patch]

I am trying to create a personal patch, obviously for my use only, and it isn't working.

What I am attempting is this. I am using my favorite housing mod, that already have a good amount of crafting stations, but I also use other mods that have their own crafting stations.... like the Song Scriptorium, and spinning wheels. When I try to add them to my housing mod with CK, the items are absent when I load my game.

I've tried loading my mod before AND after the housing mod, and my housing mod is loaded after the other mods. I've tried making this a personal patch (in case the author updates his mod), and I've even tried altering the mod itself. Note: When altering the mod itself, I can move around/delete items that author put in their mod, but the extra items I added are still missing.