LaddersAreMyFavorite

I have a number of mods installed and whenever I download a small bunch of mods, they take a long time to be added to the game. I'll click install, and I see it in the mod manager list, I go into skyirm and it isn't there. I go back into the game at a random point in the future, like 2 weeks, and it's there! I'm not just annoyed, but also confused. PLEASE tell me if I'm doing anything wrong, thanks.