HouseOfTides

So I've just started an ultimate edition playthrough, got a bunch of mods running, basically the same as I had last time I did this with some more modules like Dirge of Coldhearth for when I fancy a bit of a challenging time. The issue is, everyone in my origin (human noble) calls me 'daughter' or 'sister' despite the fact I'm a man. I do have a mod for the intro installed but I've deleted it and tried again and everyone still thinks I'm a woman despite the fact I'm a male character, so I have no idea what's going on at all.