Hey i'm new to modding and would like some insight

[Cascaislife]

I noticed my vram and ram usage was particularly high no other game reaches 21 gb of ram and 9.5gb vram usage was wondering if this is normal. I've listed my mods below any advice would be appreciated.

Skyrim.esm

Update.esm

Dawnguard.esm

HearthFires.esm

Dragonborn.esm

Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp

BetterDynamicAsh-DisableRefs.esm

PACE.esl

IFPVDetector.esl

ConfigureCommentaryRate.esl

FISS.esp

3DNPC.esp

RealisticWaterTwo - Resources.esm

SkyUI_SE.esp

Audio Overhaul Skyrim.esp

Immersive Sounds - Compendium.esp

AOS_ISC_Integration.esp

SMIM-SE-Merged-All.esp

Vanilla Hair Replacer - VHR.esp

S3DTrees NextGenerationForests.esp

Cutting Room Floor.esp

FNISSexyMove.esp

HearthfireMultiKid.esp

HearthfireMultiKid_LastName.esp

H2135FantasySeries8.esp

Skyrim Immersive Creatures Special Edition.esp

MarriageModSE.esp

SFO_SkinFeatureOverlays.esp

FastTravelSpeedMultiplier.esp

GoToBed.esp

LCO_Framework.esp

LCO_AllInOne.esp

Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp

Immersive Music.esp

Immersive Patrols II.esp

JK's Riverfall Cottage.esp

Better Dynamic Ash.esp

VtawWardrobe5.esp

Buster Sword Materia SE - Animated Meshes-Fx.esp

(SGC) SkySA.esp

TKDodge.esp

SmoothCam.esp

TrueDirectionalMovement.esp

All Geared Up Derivative.esp

FTF_Core.esp

LCO3D_AllInOne.esp

Missives.esp

RadEx_Missives.esp

Headhunter - Bounties Redone.esp

RadEx_NoticeBoard.esp

BountiesRedone_MissivesExtension.esp

BountiesRedone_Missives_Bruma.esp

BountiesRedone_Missives_Solstheim.esp

BountiesRedone_Missives_Wyrmstooth.esp

Headhunter_AllGUD_Support.esp

ImmersiveInteractions.esp

KSHairdosSMP.esp

KSWigsSMP.esp

KS Hairdo's.esp

[COCO]Goddess War.esp

3BBB.esp

CBBE.esp

SOSRaceMenu.esp

Sotteta Necromancer Outfit.esp

RaceMenuHH.esp

RaceMenu.esp

XPMSE.esp

RaceMenuPlugin.esp

FaceSculptorsRacemenu.esp

Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp

dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp

EBT - IC PATCH.esp

dD-Larger Splatter Size.esp

FNIS.esp

NLA SSE.esp

NLA SSE SOLAR CLEANER.esp

Ish's Respec Mod.esp

3DNPC0.esp

AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp

SRC_ERS.esp

SRC - All In One.esp

SRC - All In One - Tactical Valtheim Patch.esp

SRC - All In One - 3DNPC Patch.esp

GeneralRealisticWaterPatch.esp

My Home Is Your Home.esp

Buster - Johnskyrim.esp

SRC_ERS_Notice Board.esp

BountiesRedone_NoticeBoard.esp

Headhunter Missives- SRC-Radiant Patch.esp

Headhunter NoticeBoard SRC Radiant Patch.esp

Immersive Weapons.esp

Skyrim Revamped - Complete Enemy Overhaul.esp

SkyrimOutfitSystem.esp

SexLabTools.esp

UIExtensions.esp

RichMerchantsSkyrim_x10.esp

MCMHelper.esp

H2135FantasySeries9.esp

SimpleOutfitManager.esp

immersive citizens - ai overhaul.esp

Relationship Dialogue Overhaul.esp

Convenient Horses.esp

Lux.esp

Lux - 3DNPC patch.esp

RealisticWaterTwo.esp

RainRipples-RW2_addon.esp

RW2 Better Watercolor - Regular.esp

Modern Brawl Bug Fix.esp

[Cascaislife]

Forgot to mention im running on 1440p