Reasons blend, logic is diluted and we must remeber.

[Ranokoa]

I may one day come back to this and comPlete my thoughts, till then I am annoyingly hit with periods i dontmputnwhen this padticular text keyboard doesnt even have that key and other phone bull.

 

Once I was finished reading this thread that Dark0ne wrote

 

http://www.thenexusforums.com/index.php?/topic/372658-earache42-banned/

 

An epiphany of remembrance swept me to a degree that I feel I must share.

 

It will be succinct until my comp is rehooked up.

 

We are in a community with a giant potentiality for being overwhelmingly children. And a lot of them are younger than allowed. While we mostly are consciously aware of this, it was not until Dark0ne's post that reminded me of a very important thing that, if not many others, at the very least I, myself, find myself getting wrapped up in the maturity that our less than have my wish of grusome death members present. Sure, we all have our immature moments, jokes and such. We are totally entitled to that. It's what makes us mature - to use moderation and appropriate timing. A lack of childishness in adults completely is what I term, "mindless corporation robot accountants with a frontal lobe injury due to excessive grenade headband wearing.... Syndrome" ( this is an example of my immaturity I guess too.)

 

 

But here is where the problem is, aside from an alarming rate of death by those headband wearers, that when we find the people we like, enjoy conversing with (child or adult) that does have that perfect balance of immaturity so it is less a matter of tolerating but rather enjoying the presense of eachother ( figuratively) we take it for granted, and lose sight of the truth. This community is GREAT. But a large percent is indeed very and annoyingpy immature. While only a few are truly intolerable to the point that a thought comes to mind where you almost want to start a pool on how long it takezls them to be banned, it is because we are already and intentionally immerse ourselves with the mature ones we like that we trick ourselves into thinking the rest of the community must be level headed and rational / logical people that you can expect to do the comprehensible thing.

 

What is great about the community is that there are groups for everyone and any type of person to truly immerse yourselves here. Many things, peoples and all to choose to centralize your focus. We... Get.... Too... Used to it. Something that theoretically sounds nice. But when we allow ourselves to lose sight of all the other people that are not as pleasant then we lose sight of ourselves. No matter what your story is, if it was being used to everyone telling you you are great and loved or only talk with intelectuals, it is when we run into these " unfamiliar" immaturities that our own maturity disintegrates faster than the very first person to be hit by the A-bomb at ground zero.

 

This causes lapses in our judgements from the size of a penny to the size of the Nexus herself. We must remeber when interacting that kaybe, just sometimes maybe those occasional pieces of turds are actually just immature to a magnitude we tricked ourselves into thinking didn't exist. Both parties then can cauze trouble, and both are probably thinking the other a troll.... But sometimes the immature kids who weren't trolls, did not at all overstay their welcome, turn into those trolls because of the abuse sent their immature ways. And I beg people understand that everytime I saix immature, I meant it ambiguously with all its meanings. Immature people annoying things we don't comprehend as they do, but it also means they may not comprehend your intentions either.

 

In summary, "Man is blind only when he opens his eyes" so make sure when a child is pointing what looks to be a gun at you that it isn't a toy and an invitation of play before you pull out the real thing and use it.

 

I speak from personal insight, and mental experience. Personally I enjoy watching trolls starve to death than feeding them, but my mind us susseptible to the facade that everyone here are like those I enjoy the knowledge that still breathe.

 

I hope those who read this will find it helPful and possibly prevent bans. Sorry for crappy Iphone typos.

 

Be well, sleep well, fight well, live long.

~Ranokoa

 

PS: to the children. Reverse the message intenders. Know that not everybody here is exuberantly young and may take "good hearted intentions" bad with a poor choice of words.

 

Any moderator who likes this message has my blessing and my compulsion's lust to clean up the grammar and message should they so choose to. Also I am too medicated to think of a proper title. I don't mind if that is appropriately changed either.

[Ranokoa]

You can tell where the meds really kicked in at the end. Lol. I hope I am comprehensible.

[amullinix]

Just so happens I also just recently read the same thing.

 

Part of the issues here could heavily rely on the medium used. This is a forum; text, by nature, is much harder to interpret than spoken words.

 

I agree with you though. There should be a modicum of expectancy when addressing, or speaking with an individual here. My honest opinion, and it has worked, is simply speak with tact (maybe on occasion with some humor) until you figure out your audience.

 

Grammar aside ;) ...this was well typed. Thank you.

Edited April 30, 2011 by amullinix

[Ranokoa]

I was ganna hit emotionless text when I got my comp hooked up, but that now said is a nicw reminder. Plus, till then, a great contriburion. Kudos to you.