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[Lord Slyther]

And don't worry. my golden hand is reserved for the others. Not the ladies.

That...um...is very...strange...You don't happen to like...rainbows, do you?

 

Rainbows? RAINBOWS?? Oh, no no no, Ninja. Gold is the purity of decoration! I love gold! Platinum is my top favorite, but also the Midas hand suits it for those who mess with me. :devil:

 

I also dump the statues in the treasury. :dry:

 

But I don't use it on females.... :no:

[ninja_lord666]

And don't worry. my golden hand is reserved for the others. Not the ladies.

That...um...is very...strange...You don't happen to like...rainbows, do you?

Rainbows? RAINBOWS?? Oh, no no no, Ninja. Gold is the purity of decoration! I love gold! Platinum is my top favorite, but also the Midas hand suits it for those who mess with me. :devil:

 

But I don't use it on females.... :no:

That was a joking allusion to you being gay. Get it? Golden hand...not for ladies...I admit it's a stretch, but I still thought it was funny. :P

[Lord Slyther]

I only use the golden hand as a weapon. Not my actual hand. I hold it by the handle. Like a dagger.

 

I'm not gay! How dare you! :verymad:

 

*throws a snowball at Ninja in the face*

 

:biggrin:

 

C'mon, people! Show the lady some respect, will ya? :wink:

 

I'd respect a woman, and she might respect me eventually. That's the game. Try to win the girl, by getting to know each other. Especially on a date. Take her out on the things she loves to do. Be a gentleman, and open the door for her for an example.

[kungfubellydancer]

Remember that there's a difference between flattery and honest appreciation, and a woman can tell the difference between them, most of the time. I tend to automatically not believe anything anyone tells me, but I can tell when my hubby is being sincere. If there's something about me that bothers him, he doesn't hesitate to tell me (though most guys fear their girl would bite their head off for this sort of thing) and likewise, when he sees something he likes he isn't shy to compliment.

[xenxander]

Most guys don't tell their girl if something bugs them about her, mainly because they fear they won't have a chance to 'get some' that night if they annoy her during the day.

I admit it's juvenile but it's a mentality that isn't 'grown out of' with age (on the whole, NOT in case by case situations)

 

So a guy is very careful how he walks in the eggshells (most cases), unless he's in an arrangment where sex is kept separate from social squabbles (which I would so dearly love).

 

but if sex isn't an issue for the evening, he'll usually have no qualms about mentioning that 'yes she does look fat in that dress' or that her nail or teeth grinding is really irritating.

[kungfubellydancer]

Well, I would never tell my hubby to get lost if he wants it, ever. Sex is one of the most important and overlooked aspects of marriage, in my opinion. Girls need cuddly time and nice words for their appreciation needs, guys need sex. It's not because they are barbarians, its only natural. Refusing my husband sex is the same as saying, "I don't like you, go away" even though girls don't feel the same way. And, what's wrong with sex? I just don't see why many women prefer scrubbing toilets and cleaning their kids' vomit over love-making with their husband. In my opinion that is cruel and devastating on a relationship.

 

The other aspect of a successful marriage is recognizing the mental/emotional differences of man and woman, like mentioned above. So what if I don't want sex, my husband does, and in his mind that's the same as saying to me, "I love you and appreciate you, and I want to develop a close bond with you." I can't stand to hear other women talking about how they didn't want to do it because they were tired, or they had some kid issue. Its just that they are selfish and don't appreciate the natural differences between man and woman, and refuse to learn.

[LordNyghthawk]

Well, I would never tell my hubby to get lost if he wants it, ever. Sex is one of the most important and overlooked aspects of marriage, in my opinion. Girls need cuddly time and nice words for their appreciation needs, guys need sex. It's not because they are barbarians, its only natural. Refusing my husband sex is the same as saying, "I don't like you, go away" even though girls don't feel the same way. And, what's wrong with sex? I just don't see why many women prefer scrubbing toilets and cleaning their kids' vomit over love-making with their husband. In my opinion that is cruel and devastating on a relationship.

 

The other aspect of a successful marriage is recognizing the mental/emotional differences of man and woman, like mentioned above. So what if I don't want sex, my husband does, and in his mind that's the same as saying to me, "I love you and appreciate you, and I want to develop a close bond with you." I can't stand to hear other women talking about how they didn't want to do it because they were tired, or they had some kid issue. Its just that they are selfish and don't appreciate the natural differences between man and woman, and refuse to learn.

 

That's about the way my fiancee is, as well. But I let her know, that if she is too tired, or sick, or just isn't in the honest mood for it, I don't get mad for her saying "No". After all, she's not going to enjoy it that much if she's just doing it to please me.(And to me, that's at least half the fun of sex anyway, is her enjoyment). She's such a sweet gal, that I want to show her that she is appreciated and valued, not "just a piece of furniture". And the way I think of doing that, is to respect her wants and needs, just like I like my wants and needs respected. Oh, and lots of communication, so we both can find out what each other really wants, as well.

[Lord Slyther]

Its just that they are selfish and don't appreciate the natural differences between man and woman, and refuse to learn.

 

Ditto. That's one thing most men do not understand. Obviously, they don't see the way how women feel, and they shouldn't harass them. What I can say really is, you gotta show respect for the females. Which I mentioned earlier.

 

One thing I gotta include is, most women just fight men away, even if men want to take them out for a date or something. The reason is because they are disgusted by their 'ugliness', which is probably stating that the girl doesn't want to know him. That includes the men. They must show respect for women, even if some women don't like them.

[ninja_lord666]

Well, I would never tell my hubby to get lost if he wants it, ever. Sex is one of the most important and overlooked aspects of marriage, in my opinion. Girls need cuddly time and nice words for their appreciation needs, guys need sex. It's not because they are barbarians, its only natural. Refusing my husband sex is the same as saying, "I don't like you, go away" even though girls don't feel the same way. And, what's wrong with sex? I just don't see why many women prefer scrubbing toilets and cleaning their kids' vomit over love-making with their husband. In my opinion that is cruel and devastating on a relationship.

 

The other aspect of a successful marriage is recognizing the mental/emotional differences of man and woman, like mentioned above. So what if I don't want sex, my husband does, and in his mind that's the same as saying to me, "I love you and appreciate you, and I want to develop a close bond with you." I can't stand to hear other women talking about how they didn't want to do it because they were tired, or they had some kid issue. Its just that they are selfish and don't appreciate the natural differences between man and woman, and refuse to learn.

Ok, now I know you're not real! I'm just hallucinating! I know it! :wacko:

[ResidentWeevil2077]

I've always said this about a loving relationship between a man and woman: “Do unto him/her as you would have it done unto you.”

 

I know some of you may recognize that (especially my fellow Christians), but it doesn’t matter what kind of relationship it is, whether it’s just a friendship between neighbours, your love for your family, or even you spouse. I for one am a very loving person, and I have so much to give.

 

I ‘m not saying that a relationship between a man and woman is perfect (God knows we aren’t even close to being perfect :rolleyes: ), and there will always be times when things don’t go so swell. It’s how the both of you work through those rough patches that ultimately brings you even closer.

 

I try to treat my girlfriend with the utmost sincerity and respect a loving boyfriend can give to her, because she’s so special in my heart. But yesterday, we hit our first bump in the road, and it was the result of my blatant pigheadedness and foolhardiness toward her ( :wallbash: , :( ). I placed my own insecurities before her feelings, and I feel terrible for having done such a thing, even now as I write this :(

 

She trusted me, yet, I never returned that trust to her - I was ignorant, and all she wanted was to tell me how she felt :ermm: It weighs heavily on my conscience, even now, because how can she ever trust me again? I’ve made things better between us now, and I hope this serves as a lesson to all young men in relationships now - always, ALWAYS, place her before yourself, no matter what. It doesn’t matter if anyone calls you whipped, as it's her you love, no one else (and it better be only her >:( )

 

Treat her like a queen, even when she’s feeling down - you are her king, her knight in shining armour. I know that sounds cheesy, but it really is true. If you make a mistake, own up to it, especially if you've been hurtful toward her. Sorry for the long spiel, but I just wanted to share some of my own insight :)