Help please

[xXNuclearReactionXx]

Im having troubles i cant figureout what keeps crashing me

 

heres my loadorder and im newish to modding

 

GameMode=SkyrimSE

Skyrim.esm=1

Update.esm=1

Dawnguard.esm=1

HearthFires.esm=1

Dragonborn.esm=1

Lanterns Of Skyrim - All In One - Main.esm=1

Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp=1

arnima.esm=1

Campfire.esm=1

RaceCompatibility.esm=1

Falskaar.esm=1

ApachiiHairMales.esm=1

ApachiiHair.esm=1

RSkyrimChildren.esm=1

Cutting Room Floor.esp=1

SMIM-SE-Merged-All.esp=1

Immersive Sounds - Compendium.esp=1

EnhancedLightsandFX.esp=1

ELFX - Exteriors.esp=1

Rigmor.esp=1

The Forts of Skyrim-Rebuilt.esp=1

iNeed.esp=1

iNeed - Extended.esp=1

Ancient Skyrim.esp=1

Reverb and Ambiance Overhaul - Skyrim.esp=1

SoundsofSkyrimComplete.esp=1

Coins of Tamriel V3 SSE Edition.esp=1

HearthfireMultiKid.esp=1

MIHAILDAGON.esp=1

WICO - Immersive People.esp=1

QASmoke2SE.esp=1

Skyrim Better Roads - The Rift.esp=1

OpulentThievesGuild.esp=1

Thunderchild - Epic Shout Package.esp=1

CastleGonduin.esp=1

SkyTEST-RealisticAnimals&Predators.esp=1

Skyrim Better Roads - EastMarch.esp=1

Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp=1

Convenient Bridges.esp=1

WICO - USSEP Compatible Patch.esp=1

JobsofSkyrim.esp=1

PrvtI_HeavyArmory.esp=1

BattleAftermath.esp=1

Beards.esp=1

dovahkiinrelax.esp=1

dragonslayerarrows - temper.esp=1

Footprints.esp=1

HalfGiantRace.esp=1

HearthfireMultiKid_LastName.esp=1

Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp=1

Stronger Daedric Artifacts SE.esp=1

Moonlight Tales Special Edition.esp=1

Wildcat - Combat of Skyrim.esp=1

Proper Aiming.esp=1

skyforgedWeapons.esp=1

LrsamwaysExpandedSkyrimWeaponry.esp=1

Visible Favorited Gear.esp=1

beltfastenedquivers.esp=1

BarbarianSteelArmor.esp=1

Intense Combat.esp=1

Better Dressed NPCs.esp=1

JKs Whiterun.esp=1

Populated Dungns Caves Ruins Legendary.esp=1

JK's Riverwood.esp=1

AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp=1

BecomeKingofSkyrim.esp=1

Skyrim Better Roads and Bridges - All In One - Merged.esp=1

Run For Your Lives.esp=1

Cloaks.esp=1

Populated Forts Towers Places Legendary.esp=1

Immersive Patrols II.esp=1

mihailhallofmemories.esp=1

CC'sProfitableHunting.esp=1

Immersive Wenches.esp=1

Populated Cities Towns Villages Legendary.esp=1

Hunterborn.esp=1

Shor's Stone.esp=1

FrostvaleEstate.esp=1

HearthfireCellarArmoryGoldCost.esp=1

Frostfall.esp=1

Ars Metallica.esp=1

Immersive Followers.esp=1

Ivarstead.esp=1

Skyrim Chimneys.esp=1

My House.esp=1

InsanitySorrow Weapons Pack.esp=1

Kynesgrove.esp=1

Readable_Shadowmarks.esp=1

Skyrim Flora Overhaul.esp=1

cursed.esp=1

RAO - ELFX Patch.esp=1

Dr_Bandolier.esp=1

Soljund's Sinkhole.esp=1

Karthwasten.esp=1

molagbalknightlagrie.esp=1

RiftTreehouse.esp=1

SL99Exchanger.esp=1

WhiteElkShelter.esp=1

DragonboneBarbarianMale.esp=1

(Chimneys)Arthmoor towns patch.esp=1

DLCIntegration.esp=1

Winter Cove.esp=1

The Paarthurnax Dilemma.esp=1

JKs Whiterun exterior.esp=1

Snapneck Shack.esp=1

concentrativefireandfrostshouts.esp=1

garm_jr_no_armor.esp=1

TheFloatingMarket.esp=1

ZIR_UseableButterChurn.esp=1

FC02.esp=1

Apocalypse - Magic of Skyrim.esp=1

KotN Mage.esp=1

concentrativefireandfrostshoutspatch.esp=1

fireandfrostbreathLanguagefix1.esp=1

fireandfrostbreathLanguagefix2.esp=1

HavenBag.esp=1

Firewood Weight loss.esp=1

Intense Combat Alternative Creatures.esp=1

lupussword.esp=1

TrainPerLevel50.esp=1

ApachiiHelmetWigs.esp=1

Hunterborn - Campfire Patch.esp=1

Chesko_WearableLantern.esp=1

usable lantern.esp=1

CiriOutfit.esp=1

Cloaks - Dawnguard.esp=1

Cloaks - USSEP Patch.esp=1

LongerTradeSkillsbartercarrypotions.esp=1

JMR Camp Storage - Requires Campfire.esp=1

1nivWICCloaks.esp=1

hunterscarvedarsenal.esp=1

LV_Cirilla.esp=1

MarriableFollowerRalof.esp=1

Celtic_Music_In_Skyrim_SE.esp=1

UpgradePotion.esp=1

Custom Family Home.esp=1

bettercompanionliving.esp=1

SGEyebrows.esp=1

1nivWICSkyCloaksPatch.esp=1

DragonCarvedArmorSet.esp=1

RaceCompatibilityUSKPOverride.esp=1

FNIS.esp=1

XPMSSE.esp=1

Landlord.esp=1

Hunterborn - Campfire Leather Tanning.esp=1

NB-Scars.esp=1

BarenziahQuestMarkers.esp=1

StalhrimExtraCrafting.esp=1

HB-WL-CraftableLanternOilPatch.esp=1

LeftHandRings.esp=1

ELFX - Weathers.esp=1

Vivid WeathersSE.esp=1

icepenguinworldmapclassic.esp=1

WetandCold.esp=1

imp_helm_legend.esp=1

Sleeved Guards.esp=1

Heavy Armored Soldiers.esp=1

UncraftableComplete.esp=1

RSChildren - Complete.esp=1

RSChildren_NonPlayableOverride.esp=1

RSChildren_PatchUSSEP.esp=1

Vivid Weathers - Extended Rain.esp=1

Unique Uniques.esp=1

SoS_VividWeathers_Patch.esp=1

WeaponsOf3E_SSE.esp=1

KatanaCrafting.esp=1

KS_Hairdo's_Lite.esp=1

VioLens SE.esp=1

VioLens SE - Book Menu.esp=1

WICO - Immersive Character.esp=1

WICO - Immersive Dawnguard.esp=1

WICO - Wild Hunt Gears.esp=1

Imperious - Races of Skyrim.esp=1

AKA_LeftHandRings_Patch.esp=1

Racial Body Morphs - Imperious.esp=1

My Home Is Your Home.esp=1

Open Cities Skyrim.esp=1

Immersive Citizens - AI Overhaul.esp=1

ELFX - Hardcore.esp=1

Immersive Citizens - OCS patch.esp=1

Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp=1

Darkwater Crossing.esp=1

Relationship Dialogue Overhaul.esp=1

Whistling Mine.esp=1

RealisticWaterTwo.esp=1

SoS_ELFX+Hardcore+Weathers_Patch.esp=1

SoS_ImmersiveCitizens_Patch.esp=1

RAO - Alternate Start Patch.esp=1

JK's Whiterun-Open cities SSE.esp=1

RDO - AFT v1.66 Patch.esp=1

RDO - CRF + USSEP Patch.esp=1

RDO - USSEP Patch.esp=0

[mycatlikestuna]

Looking at you order I can see a few things are a little out of place.

First off, .esm's should always go above .esp's. "Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp=1" is in the middle of some esm's.

Texture and weather mods should be loaded first.

Skyrim Floral Overhaul should be loaded underneath any weather mods but BEFORE ELFX lighting mod.

Keep mods that go together together in the load order, unless other wise specified. (keeps things tidy and in the right place)

for instance RAO - ELFX Patch.esp=1 should be place either underneath ELFX main mod, or underneath the specific mod that it effects.

Moonlight Tales and any other mods affected by FINIS and XPMSSE should be placed below them in the load order.

again, group up all of your ELFX esps and put them at the top.

Wet and Cold should be placed directly below ELFX esp group.

 

you might also want to look at: http://wiki.tesnexus.com/index.php/Load_order_recommendations