Any one here understands in DoF settings?

[DrSexy]

i use vague enb but my only problem with it is that it blures the characters during conversations and its really annoying.

i found and ENB setting of other enb that doesnt to that but his blur is not as strong as i want it to be

i want the Vague enb blur during gameplay and the "boken vanilla" blur during conversations where it focuses only on the character you are talking to. http://i.imgur.com/LaPP35s.jpg

 

here are the Vague enb DOF settings

 

TECHNIQUE=1

Focus: sensitivity to nearest=0.1

Aperture:: size=1.5

Dof: sensor size=36.0

Dof: bokeh softness=0.02

Dof:: blur max range=2.5

Focus:: sensitivity to nearest=1.0

Dof:: sensor size=25.0

Dof:: bokeh softness=1.0

Dof:: Auto Focus=true

Dof:: Focus Point X=0.5

Dof:: Focus Point Y=0.5

this is of photorealistic commonwealth

TECHNIQUE=1

Auto Focus On/Off=true

Aperture.=2.0

Blur size=8.0

Bokeh Intensity=1.2

Blur strength=9.0

Chroma=7.0

if i replace the first with the second i get what i want but i dont know what is lost from the first and if it would be as intended.

since i dont understand in this settings i ask some one here who does

can you explain to me why one behaves different then the other? and what would be the solution for my problem?

in short , i want Vague ENB Dof for game play and the "boken vanilla" for npc conversations (like the one in the pic)

or something in between