Please Help with my load order i am new to this and failing XD

[CoBo123]

Skyrim.esm=1

Update.esm=1

Dawnguard.esm=1

HearthFires.esm=1

Dragonborn.esm=1

Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp=1

ks hairdo's.esm=1

RaceCompatibility.esm=1

hdtHighHeel.esm=1

FlowerGirls SE.esm=1

Havok Breast Physic.esm=1

Zikoru Swords.esp=1

LABikiniSSE.esp=1

LADX_SSE.esp=1

DragonboneBarbarianArmor.esp=1

Elvenia.esp=1

DarkStandalone.esp=1

DHuntress.esp=1

Hylian.esp=1

UNP Undies.esp=1

LeatherBackpackStraps-None.esp=1

kynreeve armor.esp=1

weaponsof3e.esp=1

KKFur.esp=1

Northgirl.esp=1

FullBootForKKSA.esp=1

seraphim - hentai darklilith.esp=1

draconicarmorlagrie.esp=1

cloaks&capes.esp=1

Aedric Weapons.esp=1

Heart of Thunder - Ragnarok Edition SE.esp=1

SauronsArmorFixed.esp=1

HentaiVoidArmor.esp=1

draugrweap_standa_en.esp=1

Unique Uniques.esp=1

R18pn - lingerie Set.esp=1

PeroPeroArmorPackSE.esp=1

SkyUI_SE.esp=1

LazyTools.esp=1

SGEyebrows.esp=1

skyrim eyebrows.esp=1

skyrim colors.esp=1

skyrim hair colors.esp=1

Elemental Eyes.esp=1

KKSDrBWeightFix.esp=1

KKSDGWeightSliderFix.esp=1

WhiteNightingaleSet.esp=1

a1_controller.esp=1

Thunderchild - Epic Shout Package.esp=1

Unique Dragon Aspect.esp=1

DragonAspectEnhancement.esp=1

samsringofcrafting.esp=1

unlimitedamuletsandrings.esp=1

FlameAtronachArmor.esp=1

noiralreborn.esp=1

bos.esp=1

big_jump_5x_sp0ckrates.esp=1

map unlocked.esp=1

instant mastery.esp=1

carryweight.esp=1

Vukasin.esp=1

Merta Assassin Armor.esp=1

Kitana.esp=1

Warhammer Sorceress Robes.esp=1

NewmillerHighHeelsBlck.esp=1

Fluffjiits.esp=1

BBD Skimpy Assassin Outfit.esp=1

Slooty Vault Jumpsuit.esp=1

R246 Female Presets.esp=1

Bijin NPCs.esp=1

Bijin Warmaidens.esp=1

RayneStandaloneFollower.esp=1

SuperbSerana.esp=1

SimpleOutfitManager.esp=1

alidonsarmory.esp=1

CraftingSupplies_AIO_ALL.esp=1

weightmodfull.esp=1

DeadlyMutilation.esp=1

FNIS.esp=1

FNISSexyMove.esp=1

EnhancedCharacterEdit.esp=1

CharacterMakingExtender.esp=1

TrueStormsSE.esp=1

Aequinoctium.esp=1

LightngDuringStorm.esp=1

EnhancedLightsandFX.esp=1

ELFXEnhancer.esp=1

ELFX - Weathers.esp=1

elfx enhancer tweaks brighter.esp=1

Weather Control (Special Edition).esp=1

the flash & speedsters.esp=1

RaceMenuPlugin.esp=1

RaceMenu.esp=1

Havok Breast Physic.esp=1

Havok Breast Physic Dragonborn.esp=1

Havok Breast Physic Dawnguard.esp=1

XPMSE.esp=1

Immersive Patrols II.esp=1

lamposts of skyrim.esp=1

nekoracewithcolour.esp=1

SOSRaceMenu.esp=1

Backshields.esp=1

Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp=1

[thumbincubation]

This is not my strong point, but are you already using LOOT? Also, what is it doing/not doing? Are you having crashes, or just mod assets rendered on top of each other, something not showing up?

[CoBo123]

yes i have and it crashes a lot

[CoBo123]

it just like randomly crashes mid game

[SirTwist]

Wow. I had to edit, three times, myself, now, before I actually replied. I need some more information to help you out. But I think I can see why you are crashing. However, I do have, also, a few tips to help you out. This isn't just a mod problem, but also a game problem. Next time you post your load order, please, kindly, place it in spoiler tags. It's easy to do. Just [ spoilers ] your load order [ /spoilers ]. Take the spaces out, and you are good to go. More information from you means less digging, etc. on our part. Here are a few questions that will help us:

 

1) What mod manager are you using?

2) Are you using SSEEdit to clean your mods?

3) Are you running your game through SSE's SKSE_Loader.exe, and not the game launcher itself?

4) Have you read all the descriptions for your mods, and tried to place them accordingly?

 

I will admit that I may have some OCD when it comes to things like this, but I think I do know what your problems are. A lot of it is placement. This, to me, looks like a mess. Sky_Ui should be a lot higher in your load order. Your body mods should be all together, and above armor mods, and even weapon mods. All your weight mods should be together, as well, and towards the bottom. The alternate start should be fairly close to Sky_ui. And I do take it that Sky_ui is the only mod you are using that is similar to that? The .esm's need a little TLC, as well. The Racemenu.esm should be on top of k's hairdo's.esm. Also, your a1_controller should be towards the top of your list. Sometimes it's not when you install the mods, but where on the plugins list they go. And Loot, good tool, but not great, can knock all of it out of whack. Weight mods, I have found, while non-crashing, has a tendency to be where you don't want them to be, because Loot wants them elsewhere, and you may end up carrying tons of stuff, when you are only, really, carrying about 150 lbs of stuff, according to the mods. A good load order should be .esm's, then UI, controller, (environmental), body, clothing/armor, weapons, crafting, etc., and finally weight mods.

[CoBo123]

Okay thanks for the help, i use nexus mod manager i have SSEEdit but still dont really ^{know how to use it cause when i press the buttons to have my mods cleaned when i go back to loot it still says they are dirty even if SSEEdit told me they were cleaned. I use SKSE and yes i try to read the descriptions as much as possible but some dont give info on where it should go in the load order.}

[SirTwist]

SSE edit, with Loot, is a good thing. It does point out what needs cleaned, or what doesn't. Here's a rule of thumb, may work, may not. But worth a try, for a load order. First, after .esm's, you should have your UI mods. After, Start another life mod. After that, Racemenu stuff, in order, race menu, then the plugin. After that, XPSME, Fnis stuff, then Havok. After that, I would say your clothing, armor, and weapons mods. At the bottom of your list, though, should be all of your weight mods. Any mods that interacts, and has a compatibility patch, you need to you put the one mod first, then the other, then finally the patch. Weather, lighting, etc. mods can be interspersed in there, as well. Also, I can't remember if it's XPSME, or Fnis, but one of those will crash your game if update the mod. I believe it is XPSME, or at least the latest version. But do not take my word on that. Things could have changed.

 

To help you understand better how to use SSE Edit, check on youtube for Gopher and Dirty Weasel Media. They may do some things a tad different, but they do walk you through some stuff. Linked is a guide how to clean things, as well. It covers a few other things.

 

https://afkmods.iguanadons.net/index.php?/topic/4110-manual-cleaning-skyrim-and-skyrim-se-master-files/

[CoBo123]

awesome thanks so for XPSME i should go back to the previous version ?