Aeryn333 Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 I will first thank Dez for standing by me...right now I can say no more...Dez..except thank you..and i love you too.. Deleted................................... A wise ol' Druid Grans of mine taught me, hate and love cannot exsist in the same place..and thats all I have to say..I choose love...words hurt, use them carefully.la.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timihendrix91 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 BTW do you think rape and murder done in the name of hate, would make you so bloody able to use and embrace it, and live life to the fullest..then go back to the hate thread and hate all you feckin' want use that word all you want.. I could give a rats ares means literaally Its used here in Eire all the time..it is a oppsite thing true..it means I don't care, but I do..it's believed that a rat was used in the expression because of the way people view the rodent (annoying and small). which is the point of this thread all the annoying small things that get us downI do not care,do not like, or at this point care or give a flying feck.. what you think...My hands are shaking so much right now I better bloody well shut me gob or I'll get banned.Just because there are people that misuse hate doesn't mean I should completely take it out of my life or pretend it doesn't exist. I don't imbrace hate, indeed unbridled hate is an incredibly dangerous thing, but then again any emotion that is not controlled is dangerous. What I don't understand is how you think that simply changing the name of the emotion (Hate to dislike) suddenly changes the emotion, when it doesn't. Why are your hands shaking? I'm just discussing. I have the deepest sympathy and empathy for Aeryn's experience.Of course, me too. I should have worded my post better. I wasn't questioning the validity of what had happened to her. I was simply stating that everyone has been victimized by hatred to some degree. I could give a rats arse, that I won't be here for a while after baring my soul, in a certain post, to a certain rats arse, about what happned to me, the, raeson I started this thread, and why hate hurts me so much,that i can't face anyone right now..after sharing that, in a heat of anger, and memory..Please calm down. I did not insult you or belittle you at all, and so I don't know why you are taking this so personally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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dezdimona Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 It deeply saddens me to see this turmoil amounst us.As humans we will fall prey to emotion, we cannot live without our emotions. I take no sides and only wish to see peace and harmony here as this should be a place we all enjoy. Forgiveness starts in the heart and cleanses the soul, understanding is the key to forgiveness and acceptance of one, is acceptance of all that makes that person.We all have a right to vent,to say whats in our hearts,and I judge no one but myself, for I know me better than anyone as Aeryn knows herself and myrmaad herself.we need to face our anger and our pain for the healing to begin and I have seen that in the topics here, but hate eats you up inside,its a cancer that grows and grows till all the good is gone and only hate remains, love and forgiveness of those that have wronged us is not easy,but to forgive means to forgive and move on I love you all,and we share much and as we are close so will we at times become angry with each other, sisters always do, as do brothers, but we forgive and move on... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myrmaad Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 It's not a lecture, I was saying my piece, and that's all. I mean no ill-will, but I think the world is a world of both light and dark, and both must be respected as the whole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aeryn333 Posted August 6, 2008 Author Share Posted August 6, 2008 It deeply saddens me to see this turmoil amounst us.As humans we will fall prey to emotion, we cannot live without our emotions. I take no sides and only wish to see peace and harmony here as this should be a place we all enjoy. Forgiveness starts in the heart and cleanses the soul, understanding is the key to forgiveness and acceptance of one, is acceptance of all that makes that person.We all have a right to vent,to say whats in our hearts,and I judge no one but myself, for I know me better than anyone as Aeryn knows herself and myrmaad herself.we need to face our anger and our pain for the healing to begin and I have seen that in the topics here, but hate eats you up inside,its a cancer that grows and grows till all the good is gone and only hate remains, love and forgiveness of those that have wronged us is not easy,but to forgive means to forgive and move on I love you all,and we share much and as we are close so will we at times become angry with each other, sisters always do, as do brothers, but we forgive and move on... I simply believe like you what my grans taught me, that wise ol' Druid womon, hate and love cannot abide in the same place and i choose love..But I was hurting, I was there, I was trying to get out of there..You know me, I forgive and let go, but it was hard to with all that coming at me..I just needed some compasion dezi thats all..not logic..sorry for not being me but for the mess it caused.. Edited content.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dezdimona Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 my sweet sister, you know your heart and what you need to do.You are wise, as is myrmaad and sometimes the written word is hard to discern what is really meant. Words sometimes cut,like a blade ,but only if we let them,for are they not ..just words?love, dezi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timihendrix91 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Feck you want to continue to argue teh right to hate here, go right ahead, I could give a rats arse that neither of you, get what i am on about....thats it....I quit done here..I don't want to argue.. *long post*really well put. Dez I can forgive, I just couldn't deal with a rational discusdion, he asked me why my hands were shakeing it was just a discusion, I suffer from PTSD, and I was rigth there,flash back..I told mymaed I did not judge,her not to judge and to just cool it, so I could get out of this flasback..I beelive as I ended my last long tryig to explain, why, and it just went rigth on, I was ignored..I'm sorry, I didn't realize what you are going through. I'll just let it die. I don't normally take things on forums very seriously, so it can be easy for me to get carried away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dezdimona Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 I'm sorry, I didn't realize what you are going through. I'll just let it die. I don't normally take things on forums very seriously, so it can be easy for me to get carried away.Bravo!!!!I could give a rats arse about feeling bad today,happy I'd rather be! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carah Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 I could give a R/A about social status; I'm a Medic, by trade, and the outer trappings on your body are far less important than what you choose to do with it. Q: Who's cooler? Buddha or Ray Charles?A: It's a trick-question. They are equally cool. Buddha is enlightened, and does not care what you are wearing. And neither does Ray. I couldn't say it any betterIn the end we're all going to worm meat, unless your going to be a sneaky *censored*, and get yourself cremated.To those that just see the darkness in my words. My point is our physical being doesn't mean anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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