Shouldn't be this difficult

[Johnnysnow]

So I've been playing and modding Bethesda games since I started playing oblivion a while back, and I thought I had gotten to be somewhat competent at installing mods (not crashing my game all the time anymore), but now I've tried Fallout 3, and that thought of mine is nearly dead. My game crashes so often, I'm not allowed to bring my computer on flights anymore (insert pitiful laugh here).

 

Now, unless this is needed, I don't want to force anyone to root through all the mods I want to try and tell which will conflict with one another. I simply want to know some pointers for finding conflicts before they happen, or if there's anything I can watch for while playing to see which mod causes my game to crash (right now I see no correlation).

 

Thanks in advance, guys!