Looking to optimize my load order

[MajinnFranky]

Before I talk about the subject at hand, I want to make a few things clear:

1. I don't use NMM or Vortex, I've always manually installed my mods

2. I don't think I can use LOOT given how bethesda integrated their mod load order into the game and not in the launcher like they used to have it.

3. Because of both 2 and that I use SKSE64, I have to go through a roundabout way to toggle mods on and off through my localappdata folder and edit the file there because bethesda doesn't like it when I use SKSE mods and always turns them off when I use the in game load order.

 

With that aside, I've been having trouble lately with my game crashing randomly. Currently my character is in ustengrav and it ctd on me a lot. Whenever I load up a save it crashes, after about 5-10 mins of getting it to run it crashes. I've been trying to be as patient as possible to get through the dungeon but its just too much for me. I looked around before as to what's been going on and I've seen reports that its microsoft's fault for having that onscreen keyboard program running in the background or that the nividia experience overlay was running in the background and either one can cause ctd for some odd reason. I have disabled those and the game still crashes. So now I'm wondering if my load order has something to do with it, and I want to ask how to properly optimize it so everything can work together.

 

My load order:

*Skyrim.esm
*Update.esm
*Dawnguard.esm
*HearthFires.esm
*Dragonborn.esm
*Lanterns Of Skyrim - All In One - Main.esm
*ApachiiHair.esm
*ApachiiHairFemales.esm
*ApachiiHairMales.esm
*BBLuxurySuite.esm
*FlowerGirls SE.esm
*Gray Fox Cowl.esm
*BSAssets.esm
*BSHeartland.esm
*Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp
*Cutting Room Floor.esp
*Bring Out Your Dead.esp
Open Cities Skyrim.esp
*Castle Volkihar Rebuilt.esp
*SMIM-Merged-All.esp
*FNIS.esp
*RaceMenu.esp
*RaceMenuPlugin.esp
*CBBE.esp
*RaceMenuMorphsCBBE.esp
*RelightingSkyrim_SSE.esp
*RealisticWaterTwo.esp
*RealisticWaterTwo - Waves.esp
*RWT Lod Fix.esp
*RealisticWaterTwo - Beyond Skyrim Bruma.esp
*Better Dynamic Snow.esp
*SkyUI_SE.esp
*SkyHUD.esp
*Atlas Legendary.esp
*icepenguinworldmapclassic.esp
*Skyrim Flora Overhaul.esp
*Animations.esp
*Joy of Perspective.esp
*Immersive Weapons.esp
*OblivionWeapons.esp
*Unique Uniques.esp
Stormfang.esp
*ScopedBows.esp
*Lore Weapon Expansion.esp
*Lore Weapon Expansion - Daedric Crescent.esp
*Lore Weapon Expansion - Goldbrand.esp
*Lore Weapon Expansion - Relics of the Crusader.esp
*IceBladeOfTheMonarch.esp
*Chrysamere.esp
*Artifacts.esp
*AzurasShield_SE_Eng.esp
*Hammerfell Armory SE.esp
*ApachiiHairMales.esp
*UNPB Vanilla Outfits.esp
*Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp
*Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp
*JoP - Immersive Armors Patch.esp
*BrumaJoPPatch.esp
*Backshields.esp
*TERAArmorsSSE.esp
*imperiallightarmorvariant.esp
*RogueArmorHD.esp
*The Unlcaimed Delivery.esp
*sirwho_Wizard_Hat.esp
*Seraphim - Ritter Armor.esp
*Seraphim - Fiona Clothes.esp
*JS Armored Circlets SE.esp
*Northgirl.esp
*MonsterHunter01.esp
*LinkleOutfit.esp
*LeatherBound Huntress Armor.esp
*Seraphim - LadyAribeth.esp
*Intriguante's Wear NO.esp
*NS_HuntingGroundsOutfit.esp
*IcyV HakuWeddingDress.esp
*Ursine Armour - Non HDT.esp
*Seraphim - Leere Armor.esp
*ExpandedJewelryCrafting.esp
*R18Pn - Eisen Platte Armor.esp
*Seraphim - Draconic Bloodline.esp
*DQ3SageOutfit.esp
*DCSorceress.esp
*Seraphim - Svs Daughter of War.esp
*BloodedHeavyArmor_by_GuitunScarfin.esp
*Blades Hakama SE.esp
*AsharaRomanticOutfit.esp
*AsharaImperialOutfit.esp
*Apophysis_DPM_SE.esp
AetherialCrafting.esp
*Witch Of The Wild.esp
*yurica_kimono.esp
*PathOfSorcery.esp
*Elemental Destruction.esp
*PoS Elemental Destruction Patch SE.esp
*LycHairstyler.esp
*FNISspells.esp
*VisualAnimatedEnchants.esp
*VisualMasterSpells.esp
*FireBurns.esp
*fastermining9-3.esp
*InigoPerkPointGiver.esp
*Skyrim Unlimited Rings And Amulets SSE.esp
*KS Hairdo's.esp
*Laundry.esp
*Potions.esp
*TKDodge.esp
*PickDefaultFollowerArmor.esp
*Cannabis Skyrim SE.esp
*Animallica.esp
*iWil_UselessShopOverhaul.esp
*immersive roads.esp
*Paradise_City_Merged.esp
*Windhelm Docks Pathways SE.esp
*FeminizedLevelLists.esp
*Mors Feminine Females - All.esp
*SexyMannequinsFemale_SSE.esp
*SexyMannequinsFemaleHF_SSE.esp
*Relationship Dialogue Overhaul.esp
*RDO - CRF + USSEP Patch.esp
*DawnguardDragonbornTiming.esp
*DudestiaMultiMarriages.esp
*HearthfireMultiKid.esp
*Immersive Citizens - AI Overhaul.esp
*AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp
*BBLSmusic.esp
*BBLuxurySuiteENM.esp
*Al_Janna_PlayerHome.esp
*Gray Fox Flora Overhaul.esp
*GrayCowlCombo.esp
*Thunderchild.esp
*Dwemertech - Magic of the Dwarves.esp
*Tools of Kagrenac.esp
*TimeAndSpace.esp
*AmeNoMurakumo.esp
*MoonAndStar_MAS.esp
*moonpath.esp
*SkyrimBounties.esp
*magic of the magna-ge.esp
*Unslaad.esp
*Vigilant.esp
*Vigilant Voiced.esp
*Helgen Reborn.esp
*BecomeKingofSkyrim.esp
*JKs Skyrim.esp
*JKs Skyrim_RWT_Patch.esp
*JKs Skyrim_Thunderchild_Patch.esp
*Winterhold Restored.esp
*Winterhold Restored - JKs Skyrim Patch.esp
*Winterhold Restored - Azura's Shield Patch.esp
*BHTNF.esp
*hjerimtnf.esp
*HSTNF.esp
*ProudspiremanorTNF.esp
*VHTNFSSE.esp
*The Paarthurnax Dilemma.esp
*BS_DLC_patch.esp
*BSPatchSE.esp
*SMIM-Bruma-Patch.esp
*TES Master Soundtrack WAV.esp
*SoundsofSkyrimComplete.esp
*SOS_ImmersiveCitizens_Patch.esp
*SOS_RLOInteriors_Patch.esp
*AnotherSortingMod_2017-SSE.esp
*Beyond Skyrim Bruma_ASM-SSE.esp
*Elemental Destruction_ASM-SSE.esp
*Immersive Armor Weapons_ASM-SSE.esp
*InsanitySorrow Weapons Pack_ASM-SSE.esp
*Moonpath_ASM 2018.esp
*Book Covers Skyrim.esp
*Book Covers Skyrim - Lost Library.esp
*Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp
*Alternate Start -- New Beginnings.esp
*CiceroFemaleSE.esp
*dorthe.esp
*Seraphim - PrettyCourier.esp
*Valerica_Follower.esp
*BijinAIO_SSE-3.1.1-SV.esp
*FlowerGirls SE - Adventures.esp
*FlowerGirls SE - Bathing Beauties Patch.esp
*Sexlab-AmorousAdventures.esp

 

Any help will be well appreciated :)

[MajinnFranky]

Should I just uninstall the game and start over from scratch? I really can't stand how often my game crashes and is making the dungeons take longer than usual.

[Baer2x4]

You have many mods I'm not familiar with, like Inigoperkpointgiver. Don't see any other Inigo mods, so is that a stand-alone mod? Did you clean master files? No merged or bashed patch even though you have a lot of armor & weapon mods. USSEP is usually higher in l/o per author.

You might want to reconsider the manager thing. I think it makes it all so much more simple, like all tools accessible from one place, ease of adding, & disabling or removing mods. Loot is more than just a L/O tool.

As for restarting, I'd do what I could to fix what you have & see how it plays.