Need help with skyrim marriage ASAP!!!

[florien]

So the other day i took up playing skyrim since the dlc parts are getting good.While i was playing i was thinking that i really need to get a "stay-home" mother for my kid(im trying to play realistic so who would leave their kid home alone with only lydia and a bard?).

I then married that girl in riwerwood that you retrieve the golden claw for,big misstake since with some modding i realized she looked like a sack of crap but w/e.

A giant came walking past my house and launched her into space a few moments later and i thought to myself thank god now i can remarry something a bit better! >.<

Well as it turns out i could not remarry because i didnt get any inheritance from the courier,so i thought it might be the to have and to hold marriage mod,so i disabled it,but without any succes,i tried the console commands from clear saves (from after my ex got sent to space).I got so far to the option that i can remarry,but all the options made me stuck at the temple of mara,i did not get a marriage scene,that is where i got stuck.

The following console commands i tried was

 

removefac 51596

player.removefac C6472

resetquest 74793

resetquest 21382

setstage 74793 10

 

second try i used these commands

completequest 0007431B

resetquest 0007431B

resetquest 00021382

 

and third try i simply planted some arrows in her face and typed "setrelationshiprank player 4,targeted the person i actually wanted to marry then typed "setstage relationshipmarriage 10" but no luck there either....

 

The most annoying thing is i got all options such as "are you interrested in me" but when i waited for the wedding ceremony nothing happened.

I hope some one picks up on this thread and helps me asap because things like these give me small impulses of ocd(not that i have it but i just cant skip some stuff that i want done like this)