Dear Via (Problems? Maybe I can help.)

[ViaFernandez]

I am all ears. And I hope I can really help. Or if you just need someone to listen. Or whatever. Go ahead. Ask.

[MartyP]

Well here I am. Thanks for entertaining my shenanigans. What do you mean I'm the only one for her to compare with?

[ViaFernandez]

Well:

 

She had been in a long term relationship (2 years) with a boy in high school whom she didn’t like very much.

 

Not much to compare with right?

[MartyP]

Oh ok. Well, I was more talking about the hunter and how she could put him up against me and he would even have a chance. Does that make sense?

[ViaFernandez]

Thing is, you are the most solid and real relationship she's ever had. You're the one on the pedestal. Everyone must be compared to you. In short, you've set the bar high.

[MartyP]

I know. That's what bothers me about it. I just don't understand why she'd put him on the same level as I am.. :confused:

[ViaFernandez]

Maybe she's not. Let's assume she's not. Besides, he's a "hunter" right? Maybe he's just playing her.

[MartyP]

Hmm . Would it be horrible for me to say I hope that's what he's doing? lol. I just wish there's something I could do. Well, thanks for all your help and nice to meet you Via.

[ViaFernandez]

Yes it would be horrible. If you love her, you'd want whats best for her. Just wait. And be a friend. You're welcome MartyP. Good luck.

[iClustaFlux]

Dear via,

 

I've been working straight for over 12 hours and am starting to hallucinate, what would you suggest i do?