i hear you on those issues, i have a nvidia 1070 8 gig vram and i still gotta use optimized textures, also it ia not your ram i only got 8 gigs and mine runs stable when i aint screwing it up, i recenlty uninstalled oldrim mcm because i didnt know the new skyui had it and nwo i cant create new characters without crashing. but keep in mind i also modified some other mods to by repacking them into a bsa, also installed one that nearly destroyed a gamesave (resaver is a lifesaver). nmm is good for mod testing but i prefer mo2 for its left pane orginization