well then i'm sorry i touched such a bad subject,as for information, yes i know where i can look, i've gone to a councilor, i've gone to my schools psychologist/councilor too... and minors even if they were to be linked to this site, its also in the off topic forum, is this not off topic? wouldn't this be just like introducing myself in a new fashion, but in a topic centralized idea? i just wanted to widen my range of people to get to know, i know this is a gaming site, hell it isn't myspace...but i thought i'd try to open up some sort of free thoughts about it... "Take me as I am, because there is no way in hell I will change for you", stating that no matter what this topic is filled with i'm not going to stop... I thank you all for your opinions though, and I have/had no intention of making this some kind of conflict or war...just to set the record straight...