siltsunrise

Is there a mod, tweak, etc. to make a follower (I was playing with sofia follower mod) stay exactly where I tell them, and not rush into combat every damned time I get into combat? Followers are fun, but this just ruins it. No ability to be stealthy. What morons! I haven't tried other followers, but forums seem to indicate this is not just a sofia thing. Am I wrong? Any fix?

Second time, same damned problem. I get all my mods in NMM, launch game, and all is ok. Then, I decide to grab another single mod. Both times it was just a simple, standalone, and after using LOOT, then running the launcher in NMM again, whammo, the game crashes right after the bethesda logo bit. So I go back, and uncheck the seemingly naughty mod, and the game still won't launch. Happened twice. So what the hell is going on? Thanks for any help. Spent hours setting all this up twice now, and don't want to repeat it, hopefully!