shatterhash

i have a issue with the process of getting the game client to accept mods.....ok so stay with me i will go over step by step what i did first i have steam and i have the full game client installed i downloaded and created an account with the nexus mod installer\manager i followed the updated instructions on how to get the game to accept mods,through the various "falout4.ini" files via "MYGAMES" i chose a couple of mods and activated them mod manager indicated they were installed an running attempted to open the game and it would not start figured no problem i will just uninstall that mod and get something else tried that and it still didnt work,tried without any mods and the game wouldnt load went back into the files the instructions told me modify,and removed the the lines i was told to wright,and saved game still wouldnt work so i said screw it and deleted the game client from steam an d then i redownloaded the game ,figured i just screwed something up no problem so i went into the files to do as instructed and now the file "FALLOUT4CUSTOM.INI" IS NOT THERE but the game works now and my saves were not corrupted but i cant seem to correctly get modds to work without that file.........WTF do i do now PLEASE HELP A NOOB

ok folk ,maybe someone out there in the land of the internet could help, my issue; MODDING WHAT I HAVE DONE: nexus mod manager installed followed updated instructions for allowing the gaming client to run mods downloaded a couple of mods activated said mods and the mod manager indicated they were installed and running properly then the game would not start i then deactivated said mods and game wont start at all went back and deleted the lines that i was instructed to wright and saved said files game still didn't work deleted the game from steam and redownloaded so i figured i could just try again fresh start maybe i screwed up it happens went back and followed the instructions again but the problem is when i try to find the file marked "Fallout4custom.ini" IT DOES NOT EXIST but here is the deal the game works now but i cant get to the right file to allow modding WTF did i do?...........please help a noob