yeah I am seeing this post quite some time after I originally made it and realize NOW that it was not very clear. What I had MEANT was that I came in seeing a lot of new acronyms that I was, at that time, unfamiliar with. which I now know are body mods and physics mods which I and others now take for granted (such as CBBE, etc.) , but people new to the site see as foreign. I eventually figured it out on my own, but thanks to those who did respond and yes, Gopher's videos were one of the big helps I found on my own to help me thru the mods. I am one of his subscribers now and have been since shortly after the original post here