BongBombs

So Im new to trying this whole modding thing and Asking for help on a topic that has probably been covered already, but i seem to have looked for hours and cant seem to find a STRAIGHT forward setup for getting JSAWYER ulitimite working properly with little to no crashes, Yes YUP, Up+ and NVAC were at the time installed and i grabbed the FNV4GB to make it run better. My rig has 8g ram and 2g graphics dedicated...... SO yeah i broke nexus like twice now to the point where it just crashed everytime i tryed changing anything to test and see if i could get a fix. Im willing to learn and add to this amazing community of people helping people but i dont know where to start..... Btw ive uninstalled all mods from nexus mod manager left the 4g fixer and nvse installed and deleted all other files from harddrive... so my game should run im going to test out Yet another char see if the basic games working tonight to Start do i? A) Reinstall fallout to get a clean copy from steam. then move on to step two B) continue with the files i have in place cause i didnt f*#@ up that bad? Step two -I will follow the EXACT directions from either a link someone on here can suggest to me which IS UP TO DATE as best as they can for EACH MOD which i will need to run jsawyer and maybe The some guy Bountie Hunter mods look good..... I am Not trying this part on my own anymore, Im Done reading over 100 old posts and directions which didnt help my situation... just made things worse BTW.... I GOT THE f*#@ING NVAC mod to stop the crashing, all it did was make things worse.... So yeah hurtin baddddddd ive talked to easy pete 20 times in the past week now due to it crashing and then i try a different suggested mod setup and have to redo that whole begininng part for it to just crash at a different part... soo savage.... havnt made it outave goodsprings in about a week.... I dont like insanity loops I really like Fallout NV and have played the s#*! outave it and still willing to play the s#*! outave it but the crashing..... No more shall i waste time to a broken ending. So thats my basic question, I have no idea if this is even the correct forum to post it in but im sure Some who reads this will see my desperation and be like hey man its not that hard and be my light in this dark place i have strayed towards..... I really would appreciate some good help at this point, But Thanks in advance for moving this post where ever it belongs Thanks in advance for just offering to help my sorry ass Thanks for not ignoring me if you knew you could help Thanks in general for reading this and getting this far From a Canadian Gamer living in the woods off the grid.