Rhonjuras

I've been having a lot of problems trying to load animations after installing sexlab for SSE. for reference, I'm using the framework: SexLabFrameworkSE_v163_BETA5 from here and I'm trying to use the mod Spouses Enhanced (SpousesEnhanced_SE_1.7.3) from here. All of the pathing leading up to the sex animations works fine, and surprisingly, there's a kissing animation that can be accessed in public that works every time, but every time I try initiating a sex animation in bed, the game crashes without fail the split second after the two characters have been teleported to the bed. I've included my mod list below as well as two different logs I was able to get of the crash, but unfortunately I dont have any experience with reading these. I did see something at the bottom of the papyrus log referencing that my character may have been "stuck." I was reading a guide online about the other log I've included, and apparently, everything after the " Exception Analysis" and "EXCEPTION_RECORD" line gives a hint towards what the problem might be. I'd really appreciate any help someone could give, and thanks in advance!

Hi there, I've recently gotten back into modding and I'm having trouble with mods that use Oblivion Mod Manager. the mod in question is: http://www.nexusmods.com/oblivion/mods/34442/?tab=2&navtag=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nexusmods.com%2Foblivion%2Fajax%2Fmodfiles%2F%3Fid%3D34442&pUp=1 I've also come across mods that have a .nif extention and that confused me because i thought that mods needed to have a .esp extension. I'll place the download in oblivion/obmm/mods and then activate it from the Oblivion Mod Manager, but the .esp file doesnt show up activated on the other side. I thought that the mod might be activating without showing up in the data files, but I've also verified that the mod isn't showing up ingame. I'm new to this so any advice you could give would be extremely helpful. Thanks for taking the time to read this!