Sometimes i'll kill a dragon, but still be fighting other dragons (Deadly Dragons) or whatever enemy is close by. But since I kille the drag I'll start absorbing at the worst time, while still fighting. It's just very distracting and doesn't seem logical to me since the Dragnborn would wait til done to pay respect and absorb. It seems absorbing is based on distance because I can control it to an extent if I get far away from dead drag very quickly. Then after fight I can walk up to it to absorb. But just hope there might be a mod or a setting i can change in TESedit5 to change the distance to absorb. make it closer?