Need help with Load Order

[hentaishinri]

Okay, so I wanted to start a different topic for this, because i feel like it needs to be covered more thoroughly.
Here's the deal: I am having constant CTD's and I don't know why (link to topic) so I decided to try as many things as I could as possible.
The most recent advice someone gave me is to take a note at my Mod Load Order, as BOSS, as helpful as it is, is not 100% reliable and I should go over the modlist after running boss.
Most recent BOSS LOG:

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Well, here's my problem: I HAVE NO FRIGGIN' IDEA WHAT TO DO
I am seriously at a downfall here because I have so many mods and I have little to NO knowledge on what a proper modlist should look like.(yes,I have been referred to proper mod order guides but I still don't get one thing from them, because I simply don't understand it :/ )

First question is:

• Note: The order of plugins set by BOSS differs from their order in its masterlist, as one or more of the installed plugins is false-flagged. For more information, see "file:../Docs/BOSS%20Readme.html#appendix-c False-Flagged Plugins".

What the heck does that mean and how do I find these false-flagged plugins?

Second question:
How should I arrange my mod order.
Thank you.

Edited September 2, 2013 by hentaishinri