Greyed out start menu and Messy Load order :( Help!

[Grieveous]

I have what seems to be a common error, My pause/start menu is grayed out so I cannot load or edit settings,I can only click on MCM and even that is grayed out.

Im pretty sure its a load order error as I just 'BOSS'd it, Im terrible at knowing how to organize my load order.

Aside from that, from what I read It could also be I have installed certain mods in the wrong order (MCM/uHUD/OHud/FlashlightNV/PN) :/

I just got back into fallout NV after quitting last time because i couldn't get my mods to work right lol this time it was all sweet, Very immersive, running well and for the first time in years I was playin the game like the first time!!!.... till I bossed it.

Any help would be appreciated, even if its just load order help and doesn't solve my main issue. My load order as follows.....

GameMode=FalloutNV

FalloutNV.esm=1

DeadMoney.esm=1

HonestHearts.esm=1

OldWorldBlues.esm=1

LonesomeRoad.esm=1

GunRunnersArsenal.esm=1

ClassicPack.esm=1

MercenaryPack.esm=1

TribalPack.esm=1

CaravanPack.esm=1

Improved Lucky 38-Suite 2.0.esm=1

Military Explansion Program.esm=1

AWorldOfPain(Preview).esm=1

More Perks.esm=1

More Perks for Dead Money.esm=1

More Perks for Honest Hearts.esm=1

More Perks for Old World Blues.esm=1

More Traits.esm=1

Project Nevada - Core.esm=1

Project Nevada - Equipment.esm=1

Project Nevada - Rebalance.esp=1

Project Nevada - Cyberware.esp=1

SomeguySeries.esm=1

Niner.esm=1

jokristinascloset.esm=1

wsex.esm=1

oHUD.esm=1

DarNifiedUINV.esp=1

CASM.esp=1

Readius_NV.esp=1

OldGhoulEye.esp=1

OldGhoulEye-ProjectNevada.esp=1

FactionIDCards.esp=1

populatedcasino-medium.esp=1

1000th addon (more containers).esp=1

1000th patch 2.1.esp=1

1000th addon (new walls n floors 1.1).esp=1

1000th addon (balcony 1.1).esp=1

Project Nevada - Dead Money.esp=1

Project Nevada - Honest Hearts.esp=1

Project Nevada - Old World Blues (No Cyberware).esp=1

Project Nevada - Lonesome Road.esp=1

Project Nevada - Gun Runners' Arsenal.esp=1

The Weapon Mod Menu.esp=1

Radio Free Wasteland.esp=1

NewVegasBounties.esp=1

NewVegasBountiesII.esp=1

wsexInnuendoAnims.esp=1

wsexInnuendoNPCs.esp=1

wsex_workgirl_tryout.esp=1

More Perks Update.esp=1

More Perks for Dead Money Update.esp=1

More Perks for Honest Hearts Update.esp=1

More Perks for Old World Blues Update.esp=1

More Traits Update.esp=1

Animated Prostitution.esp=1

ammoingredientsloot.esp=1

DrugsAreBadMKay.esp=1

FeelingIrradiated.esp=1

LFox Missing Ammo Recipes.esp=1

LFox Missing Ammo Recipes HH DLC.esp=1

Throwing Ninja's Weapon.esp=1

DragonskinTacticalOutfit.esp=1

DragonskinNCRPersonnelWearingOutfits.esp=1

DragonskinBonusPack.esp=1

DTO-ProjectNevada.esp=1

DTOBP-ProjectNevada.esp=1

PimpMyScarf.esp=1

PimpMyScarf_v2.esp=1

Sunglasses Shipment.esp=1

TGsArmorCollectionVegas.esp=1

Follower Home Marker.esp=1

NVWillow.esp=1

UnlimitedCompanions.esp=1

UnlimitedCompanions SCRIPT FIX.esp=1

RWD-NV v1.4 [standard Version].esp=1

LFox Bottle That Water.esp=1

WeaponModsExpanded.esp=1

WMX-AWOP-Overhaul.esp=1

Project Nevada - WMX.esp=1

WMX-ModernWeapons.esp=1

WMX-DeadMoney.esp=1

WMX-HonestHearts.esp=1

WMX-OldWorldBlues.esp=1

WMX-LonesomeRoad.esp=1

WMX-GunRunnersArsenal.esp=1

WMX-MW-GRA.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackClassic.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackCaravan.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackMercenary.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackTribal.esp=1

Nights are Darker 50%.esp=1

CNR_Beta.esp=1

MyAtomicWranglerSuite.esp=1

TheInheritance.esp=1

zmod_add_misc_RadioGaga.esp=1

RealSmokes.esp=1

Bodybags.esp=1

Brow Stitch.esp=1

FlashlightNVSE.esp=1

Burn Scar.esp=1

Redter65 Scar.esp=1

FrikysKillerScar.esp=1

Scarred Race.esp=1

Surgical Scar.esp=1

TFH Rugged Race.esp=1

barber-mirror.esp=1

arcadeGearCoat.esp=1

Holster Gear.esp=1

DragsModernGunslinger.esp=1

CasinoHeistPack.esp=1

CasinoBankMoney.esp=1

StockingsNV.esp=1

C1849.esp=1

1911.esp=1

Couriers Blunder + Rifle.esp=1

KABAR.esp=1

L96.esp=1

LeeEnfieldMkIII.esp=1

M37Ithaca.esp=1

MaresLeg.esp=1

MP412REX.esp=1

Remington870SO.esp=1

RagingBull.esp=1

CamonPack - Blachnick - Scottmack.esp=1

DragbodysArmorPackNoHH_NV.esp=1

1nivVSLArmors.esp=1

MoraelinsProfessionalsSuitMod.esp=1

MoreNiner.esp=1

Russell.esp=1

DragsSeamConcealers.esp=1

K3KBriefcaseBomb.esp=1

tedbomb.esp=1

MTB.esp=1

LFox Missing Ammo Recipes GRA DLC.esp=1

JIP Companions Command & Control.esp=1

Companion Sandbox Mode3.esp=0

BrigComp.esp=1

wsex-DSI.esp=1

wsexQuestFIXER.esp=1

Playthings.esp=1

AWOP - Balance and Cleanup.esp=1

The Mod Configuration Menu.esp=1

Quick Trade.esp=1

[bjornl]

max load order = 139 mods.

Missing the mods which increase stability (MMUE, YUP, NVAC I also found NVEC helped me).

No merged patch

 

cut your load order

maybe begin by replacing wmx with wmxue (throw away all modded weapons in your and all companions first)

You have a bunch of mods which do very little (add 1 weapon, for example). Replace them with mods which help you. Then once you get everything in order count your mods and see if you have room in your load order to add a few back.

[Grieveous]

max load order = 139 mods.

Missing the mods which increase stability (MMUE, YUP, NVAC I also found NVEC helped me).

No merged patch

 

cut your load order

maybe begin by replacing wmx with wmxue (throw away all modded weapons in your and all companions first)

You have a bunch of mods which do very little (add 1 weapon, for example). Replace them with mods which help you. Then once you get everything in order count your mods and see if you have room in your load order to add a few back.

138 mods, including YUP and a MERGER

GameMode=FalloutNV

FalloutNV.esm=1

DeadMoney.esm=1

HonestHearts.esm=1

OldWorldBlues.esm=1

LonesomeRoad.esm=1

GunRunnersArsenal.esm=1

ClassicPack.esm=1

MercenaryPack.esm=1

TribalPack.esm=1

CaravanPack.esm=1

YUP - Base Game + All DLC.esm=1

Improved Lucky 38-Suite 2.0.esm=1

Military Explansion Program.esm=1

AWorldOfPain(Preview).esm=1

More Perks.esm=1

More Perks for Dead Money.esm=1

More Perks for Honest Hearts.esm=1

More Perks for Old World Blues.esm=1

More Traits.esm=1

Project Nevada - Core.esm=1

Project Nevada - Equipment.esm=1

Project Nevada - Rebalance.esp=1

Project Nevada - Cyberware.esp=1

SomeguySeries.esm=1

Niner.esm=1

jokristinascloset.esm=1

wsex.esm=1

oHUD.esm=1

DarNifiedUINV.esp=1

CASM.esp=1

Readius_NV.esp=1

OldGhoulEye.esp=1

OldGhoulEye-ProjectNevada.esp=1

FactionIDCards.esp=1

populatedcasino-medium.esp=1

1000th addon (more containers).esp=1

1000th patch 2.1.esp=1

1000th addon (new walls n floors 1.1).esp=1

1000th addon (balcony 1.1).esp=1

Project Nevada - Dead Money.esp=1

Project Nevada - Honest Hearts.esp=1

Project Nevada - Old World Blues (No Cyberware).esp=1

Project Nevada - Lonesome Road.esp=1

Project Nevada - Gun Runners' Arsenal.esp=1

The Weapon Mod Menu.esp=1

Radio Free Wasteland.esp=1

NewVegasBounties.esp=1

NewVegasBountiesII.esp=1

wsexInnuendoAnims.esp=1

wsexInnuendoNPCs.esp=1

wsex_workgirl_tryout.esp=1

More Perks Update.esp=1

More Perks for Dead Money Update.esp=1

More Perks for Honest Hearts Update.esp=1

More Perks for Old World Blues Update.esp=1

More Traits Update.esp=1

Animated Prostitution.esp=1

ammoingredientsloot.esp=1

DrugsAreBadMKay.esp=1

FeelingIrradiated.esp=1

LFox Missing Ammo Recipes.esp=1

LFox Missing Ammo Recipes HH DLC.esp=1

DragonskinTacticalOutfit.esp=1

DragonskinNCRPersonnelWearingOutfits.esp=1

DragonskinBonusPack.esp=1

DTO-ProjectNevada.esp=1

DTOBP-ProjectNevada.esp=1

PimpMyScarf.esp=1

PimpMyScarf_v2.esp=1

Sunglasses Shipment.esp=1

TGsArmorCollectionVegas.esp=1

Follower Home Marker.esp=1

NVWillow.esp=1

UnlimitedCompanions.esp=1

UnlimitedCompanions SCRIPT FIX.esp=1

RWD-NV v1.4 [standard Version].esp=1

LFox Bottle That Water.esp=1

WeaponModsExpanded.esp=1

WMX-AWOP-Overhaul.esp=1

Project Nevada - WMX.esp=1

WMX-ModernWeapons.esp=1

WMX-DeadMoney.esp=1

WMX-HonestHearts.esp=1

WMX-OldWorldBlues.esp=1

WMX-LonesomeRoad.esp=1

WMX-GunRunnersArsenal.esp=1

WMX-MW-GRA.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackClassic.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackCaravan.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackMercenary.esp=1

WMX-PreOrderPackTribal.esp=1

Nights are Darker 50%.esp=1

CNR_Beta.esp=1

MyAtomicWranglerSuite.esp=1

TheInheritance.esp=1

zmod_add_misc_RadioGaga.esp=1

RealSmokes.esp=1

Bodybags.esp=1

Brow Stitch.esp=1

FlashlightNVSE.esp=1

Burn Scar.esp=1

Redter65 Scar.esp=1

FrikysKillerScar.esp=1

Scarred Race.esp=1

Surgical Scar.esp=1

TFH Rugged Race.esp=1

barber-mirror.esp=1

arcadeGearCoat.esp=1

Holster Gear.esp=1

DragsModernGunslinger.esp=1

CasinoHeistPack.esp=1

CasinoBankMoney.esp=1

StockingsNV.esp=1

C1849.esp=1

Couriers Blunder + Rifle.esp=1

KABAR.esp=1

LeeEnfieldMkIII.esp=1

MaresLeg.esp=1

RagingBull.esp=1

CamonPack - Blachnick - Scottmack.esp=1

DragbodysArmorPackNoHH_NV.esp=1

1nivVSLArmors.esp=1

MoraelinsProfessionalsSuitMod.esp=1

MoreNiner.esp=1

Russell.esp=1

DragsSeamConcealers.esp=1

K3KBriefcaseBomb.esp=1

MTB.esp=1

LFox Missing Ammo Recipes GRA DLC.esp=1

JIP Companions Command & Control.esp=1

Companion Sandbox Mode3.esp=0

BrigComp.esp=1

wsex-DSI.esp=1

wsexQuestFIXER.esp=1

Playthings.esp=1

AWOP - Balance and Cleanup.esp=1

The Mod Configuration Menu.esp=1

Quick Trade.esp=1

Grieve_Patch_1.0.esp=1

[bjornl]

 

max load order = 139 mods.

Missing the mods which increase stability (MMUE, YUP, NVAC I also found NVEC helped me).

No merged patch

 

cut your load order

maybe begin by replacing wmx with wmxue (throw away all modded weapons in your and all companions first)

You have a bunch of mods which do very little (add 1 weapon, for example). Replace them with mods which help you. Then once you get everything in order count your mods and see if you have room in your load order to add a few back.

138 mods, including YUP and a MERGER

and what are you saying? You followed some of my suggestions and I am supposed to read your mind to find out how it is working?

 

Load order has 139 items. Which is still ok, but pushing it.

Did you look at the contents of the merged patch to see what it was doing?

 

Is your game performing better so far?

wsex is known to cause some problems. Don't recall exactly what it conflicts with but I believe it includes several companion mods (such as Willow).

I still suggest that WMXUE is a better choice then WMX for games with lots of mods.

[Grieveous]

 

 

max load order = 139 mods.

Missing the mods which increase stability (MMUE, YUP, NVAC I also found NVEC helped me).

No merged patch

 

cut your load order

maybe begin by replacing wmx with wmxue (throw away all modded weapons in your and all companions first)

You have a bunch of mods which do very little (add 1 weapon, for example). Replace them with mods which help you. Then once you get everything in order count your mods and see if you have room in your load order to add a few back.

138 mods, including YUP and a MERGER

and what are you saying? You followed some of my suggestions and I am supposed to read your mind to find out how it is working?

 

Load order has 139 items. Which is still ok, but pushing it.

Did you look at the contents of the merged patch to see what it was doing?

 

Is your game performing better so far?

wsex is known to cause some problems. Don't recall exactly what it conflicts with but I believe it includes several companion mods (such as Willow).

I still suggest that WMXUE is a better choice then WMX for games with lots of mods.

 

Sorry was a rushed reply as had to go to work lol didnt mean to be short and I realy appreciate the help.

 

My game runs great and always has, its the greyed out pause menu that anoying me , I cant click on anything exept the mod menu, wsex has always worked fine, Its not essential for me it just adds another gritty element to the game, whoring out my companions lol

 

from what I have read it could be something to do with project nevada, it has an inbuilt mod manager that effects it. I just dont know how to fix it.

[Grieveous]

 

 

max load order = 139 mods.

Missing the mods which increase stability (MMUE, YUP, NVAC I also found NVEC helped me).

No merged patch

 

cut your load order

maybe begin by replacing wmx with wmxue (throw away all modded weapons in your and all companions first)

You have a bunch of mods which do very little (add 1 weapon, for example). Replace them with mods which help you. Then once you get everything in order count your mods and see if you have room in your load order to add a few back.

138 mods, including YUP and a MERGER

and what are you saying? You followed some of my suggestions and I am supposed to read your mind to find out how it is working?

 

Load order has 139 items. Which is still ok, but pushing it.

Did you look at the contents of the merged patch to see what it was doing?

 

Is your game performing better so far?

wsex is known to cause some problems. Don't recall exactly what it conflicts with but I believe it includes several companion mods (such as Willow).

I still suggest that WMXUE is a better choice then WMX for games with lots of mods.

 

Fixed it!!!I needed the bugfix for MCM, Thanks so much for trying to help though dude! glad theres still people in the Fallout comunity, Is there anway I can give u like a kudos or something?

[bjornl]

Fixed it!!!I needed the bugfix for MCM, Thanks so much for trying to help though dude! glad theres still people in the Fallout comunity, Is there anway I can give u like a kudos or something?

 

Glad you got it sorted out. You don't need to give me kudos. I didn't actually help you. Even if I had, it still wouldn't be necessary.

As for how to do it... you can click on my backup thingy and from the database side you can give anyone kudos.