Having trouble running multiple adult mods

[twowolves80]

Hi, guys. Don't yell, but I am at a complete loss as to how to get several adult mods to run together through the Nexus Mod Manager. I know for sure it's something I am doing, but I don't yet have the experience tinkering with mods to figure out what exactly is happening and going wrong.

I am trying to run the following mods together (so please tell me if they are incompatible, though I have tried to filter out those that clearly say they are):

Animated Prostitution
FNIS Behavior v. 5.1.1 and v. 5.0.2
4uDIKs Real Body
Calientes Beautiful Bodies
Dimonized UNP Female Body (skinny and main bodies)
Nude Males v. 0.4

Now, I have no idea how to access the slider tools for the Calientes mod, or the others, as I am using the Nexus Mod Manager. I have tried installing these mods in different orders, tweaking the Animated Prostitution Mod's settings (selecting 4uDIKs and the FNIS options, as well as no to the BBC install option, since I have the Dimonized version), all to no avail.

What ends up happening is that there is a silhouette of flaccid genitalia on the males surrounded by odd black patches where the texture maps haven't taken hold. I cannot get them to show erect no matter what I've tried (since I don't know what I'm doing in the first place), and a lot of times, the script breaks and the males will stand there, or will sort of "merge" with my character and not do anything.

I stopped using the Adult Show XXX mod because it is incompatible with the Animated Prostitution mod, though I would love to find a way to merge the two while eliminating conflicts.

Also, I would like to know how to call up the tool sliders and whatnot as shown in the Dimonized and Calientes mods so I can tweak the appearance of the textures.

Please help!