HDT and Physics not working

[KellPhii]

I have absolutely all HDT and Physics mods I can find.

HDT Physics Extensions
HDT Breast and Butt Physics
TBBP Dragonfly
Realistic Ragdolls
Caliente's BodySlide 2 and Outfit Studio for the body
CBBE of all variations
etc.

I used CBBE BBP, TBBP, and HDT bodies and none works with anything.

The ONLY thing that actually works for body physics and HDT is 'I Love Cleavage CBBE HDT'

But I prefer to not use this because the body proportions are overly exaggerated.

I looked at all the guides google can offer that brought me to this website and other sites like loverslab and reddit.
I did all I can on my own but nothing is working.

I don't know why only 'I Love Cleavage' mod is the only mod that actually works but I would love it so much if I can get everything else to work somehow!

Please help me - I really want to finish this mystery before I have to go back to college and put Skyrim down again

[KellPhii]

1. Open the directory: Skyrim/data/SKSE/plugins/ (If it doesn't exist, create it. Go ahead, it's ok.)
2. Copy in the files hdtPhysicsExtensions.dll and hdtPhysicsExtensionsDefaultBBP.xml

    

   There is these files that I keep reading on and is also part of getting this to work (I think)

   I don't see these plugins. How do I get them? I have all the mods installed and reinstalled already

[DoctorKaizeld]

you dont have Havoc Object, you need it to get the mod to work.

[KellPhii]

I downloaded Havok Object but now how do I use it?

[DoctorKaizeld]

it should be placed in your data folder.