cant a guy get a break?

[TheCalliton]

Hey, gang. I met this wonderful girl on a random chat site who lives 10 miles from me. We hit it off, webcammed, and ended up deciding to hang at the mall of america where we would have som e"alone time". I felt like i had the chance to finnaly have someone to love. lose my virginity to someone who cares, and alround just be happy. She ended up, before I coul deven hang with her at the mall, choosing another guy. I never even had a chance... I just needed to tell someone, and you all have always been a source of good advice. I just feel so heartbroken... she really liked me and everything.

[DeadMansFist849]

That sucks. It always feels awful to be rejected. Here is my advice, which is heavily biased against normalcy:

 

Well, firstly, girls are not Steam achievements. Secondly, purity is not the be-all and end-all of life, getting physical is about (or should be about) what you and the other person like, not gaining an achievement and being "cool". Thirdly, and you are probably going to want to smack me for this, but I do know what I'm talking about: there's a whole lot of people who do not get to marry their high school sweethearts. Humans don't have a sell-by-date, so please, don't beat yourself up about being a particular age and not dating anyone.

[TheCalliton]

oh, i dont wanna wait till marraige for anything physical, just some kinda emotional connection.

 

It justs kinda sucks to be rejected before even really having a chance :(

[Werne]

That's life, I had quite a few girls and believe me, that's not the worse that can happen. It took me 3 years to find the right girl and now my life is a whole lot better. Just keep trying and you'll find one that will appretiate you (and hopefull give you a chance before she dumps you).

 

Oh, and don't meet girls on the web, go to a pub or somewhere like that, buy the girl a drink, talk with her, get to know her, you know how this goes. Or do it like me, drop a pizza on her head and pray that she doesn't kick your arse 8) (that's how I met my girlfriend).

[TheCalliton]

i dont think i could pull that poff, wene... id ont get out much

[Werne]

It's easy, just be yourself, act naturally and go for it, it's not like you have something to lose and you can always try again with another girl if you fail. Don't use too much of your brain, don't force the relationship and don't ask a girl about her age untill you get to know her better, otherwise you're most likely screwed. And never, ever, EVER ask a girl to have sex with you, that leads to bruises and pain on various parts of your body. Also, If you want a serious relationship find a girl that understands you and you understand her. If you're more of an intelectual type (meaning you actually use your brain) you could check out the local library, there are some girls there as well (some are far more intelligent that those in the bar), just don't mention the word "geek" while in the library, it can lead to some nasty consequences.

 

Basically, what I want to say is that you should start getting out, you won't get a girlfriend while siting at home. Call some friends, meet up and go out for a beer. Finding a girlfriend is practice and experience, you lack both so you really need to practice.

Edited February 7, 2012 by Werne

[TheCalliton]

im onyl 19, werne, beer is out of the question for me lol.

thanks for the advice, i guess i just need to get a life.

[SubjectProphet]

I have no say in the matter of my life. Well, that remains for 2 years, then I can leave this rusty college....

 

Either way, don't sit around and dwell on it. That'll lead to depression. Go do something. I don't know what, but if you go outside and do something out there, within the matter of this month, you might just land a girl.

[SilverDNA]

If talking (Posting) in your situation is helping you then Calliton, talk, but from your topic name I assume you are severely crushed about some things..

let me describe the feeling that you probably had to be more specific ( only as example) It was like jump from 5th floor and landing on your stomach on the hard concrete.

Kay if you want something that helps follow this instructions you need to click on the spoiler below and start to sing as loon and as loud as you can the lyrics in the spoiler at a minimum 3 times or if you feel still bad then as often as you want... ... believe me this will help.

:whistling:

 

 

 

Cheer up, Brian. You know what they say.

Some things in life are bad,

They can really make you mad.

Other things just make you swear and curse.

When you're chewing on life's gristle,

Don't grumble, give a wistle!

And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...

 

 

...always look on the bright side of life!

(whistle)

 

Always look on the bright side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten,

There's something you've forgotten!

And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing,

 

When you're feeling in the dumps,

Don't be silly chumps,

Just purse your lips and whistle -- that's the thing!

And... always look on the bright side of life...

 

(whistle)

Come on!

 

(other start to join in)

Always look on the bright side of life...

(whistle)

 

For life is quite absurd,

And death's the final word.

You must always face the curtain with a bow!

Forget about your sin -- give the audience a grin,

Enjoy it -- it's the last chance anyhow!

 

So always look on the bright side of death!

Just before you draw your terminal breath.

Life's a piece of s***,

When you look at it.

 

Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true,

You'll see it's all a show,

Keep 'em laughing as you go.

Just remember that the last laugh is on you!

 

And always look on the bright side of life

(whistle)

Always look on the bright side of life

(whistle)

 

 

:whistling:

Edit: ok now I'm joining the song too

Edit² again: come no folks, all together now ...

Edited February 7, 2012 by SilverDNA

[TheCalliton]

havent seen that whole movie yet :( i want to so badly