Ways Of Getting Over The One You Loved

[Xeniorn]

If it was true love, not lust but love, then i am sorry, there is no way to "get over it." Love is permanent. I Love some one who does not return that love. We are great friends and i can hope for nothing more. I charish every last moment i have with this person but at the same time every moment we spend as "friends is like another dart in my heart, but i keeep coming back for more because it is true love. If ther is a way to "get over" some one then i dont know if i even want to know it.

 

Most true. Why would you want to get over love? If it was true love.

 

Here is the key piece of advice. Dont think about it. Try to live your life as it was before hand. If it keeps popping up in your mind then think it through. Just think about why it affects you so much. If this girl is such a key thing in your life then find out what she did to make you so happy and see if its that importnat.

 

Try it. It's easier to say than to do.

[tyjet3]

I highly agree with Hogosha...

 

If it was true love, not lust but love, then i am sorry, there is no way to "get over it." Love is permanent. I Love some one who does not return that love. We are great friends and i can hope for nothing more. I charish every last moment i have with this person but at the same time every moment we spend as "friends is like another dart in my heart, but i keeep coming back for more because it is true love. If ther is a way to "get over" some one then i dont know if i even want to know it.

 

Love is very hard. I have had some rough relationships but my best friend really helped me out alot of the time. He was always there to listen and I know sometimes he just didn't want to hear it but he listened anyway. When you lose someone you care about, it is always great to know you still have a good friend that still cares for you. That is why he has been my best friend for so long. He even used my emotion to feed him to write a song. He called "Life's Way". I think he was trying to tell me something with that title. Love is just something in life. When love fails it is life's way of showing you it's not over yet. Life doesn't end when love ends.

 

Anyway, I know this will be hard but your best bet is just to lay low for a while. Don't date for at least five months. It will be hard but this will give you more time to think and learn and it will make you a better person. Jumping in to another relationship would be a vry bad move. Most the time you be in that rebound relationship for the wrong reasons. I still love girl I ever said I love you to (except one) just not the same kind of love I had for them before. Sometime they become great friends.

 

What ever path you choose, good luck.

[eternaldarkness]

(if you are doing this) don't ask how, for by doing this you are essentially blaming your self. instead merely know that it happened, (knowlege free of emotion) and you will get over it eventually. I just broke up with my girlfriend :bye: ( :wacko: emphasis on my signature) and it is working for me.