Mod issue/game wont start?

[RizzOG]

My games doesnt even start up, I get the pop up with the play, options and settings screen, then when i hit play the game just never opens. when i disable all mods it works so it must be a modding issue.. I currently use NMM (i know it old but i still prefer it). I used LOOT to make the order order, i had no problems according to LOOT. i had 3 "dirty files" which i tried cleaning them with SSEEdit, didn't seem to help.. I have everything up to date and and tried verifying my game files through steam. still never fixed it. According to LOOT nothing it conflicting, i even tried doing my own load order and still never helped..
Would the best option be to turn each mod on one at a time at test them to find a problem?
This is my exact load order copied directly from LOOT

0 0 Skyrim.esm
1 1 Update.esm
2 2 Dawnguard.esm
3 3 HearthFires.esm
4 4 Dragonborn.esm
254 FE 0 ccbgssse057-ba_stalhrim.esl
5 5 Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp
6 6 BSAssets.esm
7 7 LegacyoftheDragonborn.esm
8 8 RT_Morrowind.esm
9 9 PiratesNorth.esp
10 a ShumerWorld.esm
11 b ShumerNWa.esp
12 c rochester.esm
13 d DA_Skyship.esm
14 e Black Marsh.esm
15 f BSHeartland.esm
16 10 arnima.esm
17 11 HammetDungeons.esm
18 12 ERF - Kerrigan.esm
19 13 RaceCompatibility.esm
20 14 SC_Drow Race.esm
21 15 SkyrimBordersDisabled.esm
22 16 Snow_Elf_Race.esm
23 17 Highrock.esp
24 18 BosmerArmorMATY743.esm
25 19 BS_DLC_patch.esp
26 1a Deep_Elf_Race.esm
27 1b Campfire.esm
28 1c Falskaar.esm
29 1d Daggerfall.esp
30 1e Midwood Isle.esp
31 1f Phoe.esm
32 20 Gray Fox Cowl.esm
33 21 SkyUI_SE.esp
34 22 Vivid WeathersSE.esp
35 23 Black Marsh North.esp
36 24 nile.esp
37 25 MoonAndStar_MAS.esp
38 26 Undeath.esp
39 27 Cutting Room Floor.esp
40 28 CollegeOfWinterholdImmersive.esp
41 29 TheBawbsShire.esp
42 2a Skyrim Immersive Creatures Special Edition.esp
43 2b Orsinium Reborn.esp
44 2c RT_Morrowind.esp
45 2d Lothbruk Village.esp
46 2e Vominheim.esp
47 2f Helgen Reborn.esp
48 30 RLO - Exteriors.esp
49 31 Original Opening Scene.esp
50 32 DragonStar.esp
51 33 moonpath.esp
52 34 JRMoonpathtoElsweyrPatch.esp
53 35 SPTConsistentOlderPeopleSE.esp
54 36 OpulentOutfits_2017-SSE AIO.esp
55 37 AKSkyrimUnderground.esp
56 38 Wintersun - Faiths of Skyrim.esp
57 39 The Haven From The Cold And Dark.esp
58 3a Cloaks.esp
59 3b SL01AmuletsSkyrim.esp
60 3c Dwarfsphere.esp
61 3d Artifacts.esp
254 FE 1 DBM_HelgenReborn_Patch.esp
62 3e WZOblivionArtifacts.esp
254 FE 2 DBM_OblivionArtifacts_Patch.esp
63 3f Clockwork.esp
64 40 Winterhold Restored.esp
65 41 Arcanum.esp
66 42 Valenwood.esp
67 43 minotaurplayable.esp
68 44 Ars Metallica.esp
69 45 ShoutPerks.esp
70 46 BetterUnarmedPerks.esp
71 47 Cloaks - Dawnguard.esp
72 48 Cloaks - USSEP Patch.esp
73 49 Dwemer Race.esp
74 4a DiverseDragonsCollectionSE.esp
75 4b MorePlayableRaces.esp
254 FE 3 DBM_AHO_Patch.esp
76 4c Worldtree.esp
77 4d konahrik_accoutrements.esp
78 4e Hardrock.esp
79 4f TheIsland.esp
80 50 Folkvangr.esp
81 51 Tools of Kagrenac.esp
82 52 MiraakFollower.esp
254 FE 4 DBM_TOK_Patch.esp
83 53 Phenderix Magic World.esp
84 54 111KevinVanNordIsland.esp
85 55 The Asteria Dwemer Airship.esp
254 FE 5 DBM_CRF_Patch.esp
254 FE 6 Wintersun - Balance Tweaks.esp
86 56 Undeath Ascension.esp
87 57 Undeath Immersive Lichdom.esp
254 FE 7 DBM_MAS_Patch.esp
254 FE 8 DBM_Undeath_Patch.esp
254 FE 9 CWIOOSEPatchAIO.esp
88 58 ForgottenCity.esp
89 59 WheelsOfLull.esp
254 FE a DBM_Falskaar_Patch.esp
254 FE b DBM_ImmersiveCollegeofWinterhold_Patch.esp
90 5a Dorchadas.esp
254 FE c DBM_SkyrimUnderground_Patch.esp
91 5b magic of the magna-ge.esp
92 5c bhabhilon.esp
93 5d The Paarthurnax Dilemma.esp
94 5e Darkend.esp
95 5f FC02.esp
96 60 AetheriumSwordsnArmor.esp
254 FE d mihailesocenturion.esp
97 61 Deep_Elf_Extra_Automatons.esp
254 FE e DBM_AetheriumWeapons_Patch.esp
254 FE f DBM_Wintersun_Patch.esp
254 FE 10 DBM_KA_Patch.esp
98 62 Darkglade.esp
254 FE 11 Wintersun - USSEP Patch.esp
254 FE 12 DBM_BeyondReach_Patch.esp
254 FE 13 DBM_CloaksofSkyrim_Patch.esp
254 FE 14 DBM_AmuletsOfSkyrim_Patch.esp
254 FE 15 DBM_TheGrayCowlofNocturnal_Patch.esp
254 FE 16 DBM_ArtifactsofSkyrim_Patch.esp
254 FE 17 DBM_Clockwork_Patch.esp
99 63 ktWeaponPackSE.esp
254 FE 18 DBM_WheelsofLull_Patch.esp
254 FE 19 DBM_DevAvezaAirship_Patch.esp
100 64 BVLT - Deep Elf.esp
101 65 TimeAndSpace.esp
254 FE 1a DBM_ktWeaponPackSE_Patch.esp
254 FE 1b DBM_ForgottenCity_Patch.esp
254 FE 1c DBM_Moonpath_Patch.esp
102 66 Spectral Horse.esp
103 67 Apocalypse - Magic of Skyrim.esp
104 68 Apocalypse - Cheat Chests.esp
105 69 Indoril_Armor.esp
106 6a Neverend.esp
107 6b RaceCompatibilityUSKPOverride.esp
108 6c RLO - Effects.esp
109 6d Daggerfall - Update.esp
110 6e BarenziahQuestMarkers.esp
111 6f Snow_Elf_Race_No_IVG_Smithing_Start.esp
254 FE 1d TOK_AetheriumWeapons_Patch.esp
112 70 SGEyebrows.esp
113 71 UnreadBooksGlow.esp
114 72 Vivid Weathers SE - Bruma Patch.esp
115 73 Vivid Weathers SE - Classic.esp
116 74 Vivid Weathers SE - Falskaar.esp
117 75 Vivid Weathers SE - Summer Season.esp
118 76 Deep_Elf_Nubbin_Mode.esp
119 77 HighrocklandmassEdited.esp
120 78 FNIS.esp
121 79 RaceMenu.esp
122 7a XPMSE.esp
123 7b RaceMenuPlugin.esp
124 7c StaffOfSheogorath.esp
254 FE 1e CWICRFSEPatch.esp
254 FE 1f WheelsofLull-Skyship.esp
254 FE 20 DBM_StaffofSheogorath_Patch.esp
254 FE 21 WoLPatch-DBM.esp
254 FE 22 DBM_ArsMetallica_Patch.esp
254 FE 23 DBM_UnreadBooksGlow_Patch.esp
254 FE 24 WheelsOfLull - Forgotten City - Bruma Patch.esp
125 7d Imperious - Races of Skyrim.esp
126 7e Ordinator - Perks of Skyrim.esp
127 7f Apocalypse - Ordinator Compatibility Patch.esp
128 80 Deep_Elf_Ordinator_Patch.esp
254 FE 25 Ordinator - Beyond Skyrim Bruma Patch.esp
254 FE 26 CWIOrdinatorPatchSSE.esp
129 81 Open Cities Skyrim.esp
130 82 RLO - Interiors.esp
131 83 RLO - Illuminated Spells.esp
132 84 RLO - CRF Patch.esp
254 FE 27 OCS + LOTD5 Patch.esp
254 FE 28 CWIOpenCitiesSEPatch.esp
133 85 IcePenguinWorldMapPaper.esp