Learn how to mod, if you don't see what you want to see? Bethesda is literally throwing tools at its community, and Skyrim has been around long enough that there are soooo many guides out there to help you get started. I couldn't find the particular things that I was looking for, so I'm teaching myself how to create mods. You don't need a super computer to create mods, either. That said, I actually like the sexy mods just as much as I like the "immersive" mods. I switch up my gear depending on what I'm feeling that day. But my character has a fairly realistic look with realistic proportions. To each their own.