Suicide

[dezdimona]

here is the PM I received from Phil who posted this horrible hoax Direstorms was my friend and I loved him as a friend. We we're all taken in by the underhanded and devasteing post.

 

 

 

Hello, my name is Phil I have been Doug's friend for 17 years. I saw the poem you wrote for him, and feel terrible because there is more to this than meets the eye. He told me how you consoled him when he came over to my house devastated. This will be a long explanation so I will just paste what I have told Lady Azura recently after we traded several messages. -------

 

I don't hate you, hate is a very strong word. And I am not saying it is all your fault, Doug's life has been a tragic one and many horrors that he has witnessed over the years has scarred him in a way that made his life a living hell sometimes. But I was extremely furious at you after what he told me. You need to listen to me and listen to me very carefully, I have something very Important to tell you that will most likely make you and everyone else on this forum and this community hate my guts, and to tell you the truth I don't give a *ban me*, all I care about is my friend. You say you do love him in the way he loved you and you will never be with anyone else to honor his memory ? If you truly mean that then listen to what I am about to say like you have never listened to anything else in your life. Doug was in the hospital with his grandfather when they had to put him on life support. They told him that the chances of him surviving on his own again are less than 5 %. Doug was so crushed that he decided to admit himself into a maximum security hospital and be put on voluntary suicide watch. Doug is still alive right now, I put that notice up to show you how it feels to lose the person you thought loved you, and wake you up as to why you love him . FIRST AND FOREMOST I did this completely on my own, Doug has no Idea what is happening right now, he thinks you have left him and never want to talk to him again, so if you are going to hate someone for this HATE ME, not him, because he would never of done this to you. I also did this knowing that Doug will also be extremely pissed off at me, and most likely beat the living *ban me* out of me for doing this, which is very dangerous for me because Doug has torn apart older and more experienced street fighters like they were rag dolls before. For the past few days he has been locked away in a room with his hands and feet bound to his bed so he cant hurt himself. He stares at the wall all day and isn't responding to anything anyone is saying, he just sits there and stares. This is your second chance, I know that he still loves you, and would do anything to make the dream that you two have a reality, he told me that before he was admitted into suicide watch. But right now he is broken, and I know for certain that when his time on suicide watch is over and he comes home, he will end up killing himself for real this time. Its time to ask yourself if you think he is worth standing up for against your parents and making a few sacrifices to make your dream a reality. Because he was willing to sell his lifelong family home and leave the country he fought and bled for to come and be with you, and start a family of your own. Now you just take some time to think very carefully about that and look beyond what is happening right now, instead think of what can happen if you would make a stand and fight for him no matter what your parents do or say. I did this out of love for Doug and to show you what you are going to lose if you are not willing to make a few sacrifices for him, and for the future that you can have with him. I will post the truth here minus your involvement, and apologize for what I have posted, but first you need to look beyond your hatred for me and what I have done, and think about your love for Doug, because right now he is in Hell, and when he comes home you will have a second chance to show him you do love him and mean the things you have said about Destiny and loving him the way that you do. A second chance like this never comes for many people Tena, its time for you to think very hard about this. You let me know what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do, and maybe when he hears me again I can tell him he has something waiting for him at home other than an empty house and more pain.

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I know you are probably in shock right now, and I am sorry for doing this, but all I care about is Doug, and I needed to open her eyes to the fact that her parents cant and shouldn't control what she really feels in her heart. He is still on suicide watch right now, so far he hasn't responded except for moving his head towards me. I ask you to please keep this to yourself for now, I will post an apology after this matter is settled. And also, he told me that night before his grandfather went on life support that he wrote and told you what was happening, I would appreciate it if you would show Lady Azura what he sent you so she can better understand what was happening to him. I understand if you hate me for this, but please show it to her for Doug, so she can know the truth.

[humanbean234]

Regardless of what's going on here, Dez, this is an extremely macabre situation and would be best handled via law-enforcement professionals and mental health professionals. I highly recommend the moderators lock these threads (and possibly hide them from public view immediately!) without deleting them. These may become "evidence" in some sort of legal proceeding.

[Dark0ne]

Agreed. Locked before the drama bomb hits. No more of this please until such time as Direstorm returns.