Me

[dezdimona]

My apologizes to everyone here and to Mr Scott and the rest of the staff if my actions have caused some to look down upon me for whatever reason. Forgive me for being young and sometimes not so intelligent as some others.

I never denied that i'd not be me and I love this site because for the most part I'm allowed to be me

I like Garrett thats not a secret,and he's lonely and in a combat zone. Have we overstepped common sense? Perhaps,but we are young.

What upsets me is the fact that others sit in judgement of me and my actions and instead of coming to me in a PM like a mature adult, take to publicly humilating me and think that it's justified.

I made it clear from the beginning that I judge no one and have no right too,yet I'm judged.Is it done in private..No..It's done where all can see it.I've PM'd others with concerns or other issues because I feel it's the right thing to do it that way.

But I in turn am publicly embarrassed by people who should with common sense do it in private.

This site has allowed me freedom unlike any other site,some of which I've been banned from because I'm open and honest not only about myself,but my sexuality.Why is it others feel the need to judge me?

Why am I not allowed to be what and who God intended me to be?

Forgive me if I make errors in judgement concerning Garrett,for I'll tell you up front there is no sex involved in any way shape or form. And does everyone here forget they were young once also!

Have you not errored?

 

If you don't like me for any reason,thats fine,but don't trash me publicly and humiliate me and then stand there with a "holier than thou" attitude.Guess what you ain't no better than me no matter how much your over inflated ego tells you that you may be.

I'm sure I'll get repercussions from this but,I've weathered far worse than you can ever imagine.

 

I've made many friends here whom I know in the past few days have wondered whats up with me.

I appreciate their concern,but I'll be damned if I'll let anyone trash me in public and sit in judgement of me for any reason, and then not say something.

 

This site was a god send for me, and I appreciate all that Mr. Scott and the moderators have done.

I've been accepted here by some and befriended and even loved and allowed personal freedom, and I'm so deeply grateful to all of you that have not taken my sillyness and yes sometimes immature behavior to heart.

I love life and have a zest for it and it was never my intention to make enemies or cause concern or problems . I just want to be me..is that so wrong?

 

Again my apologies to the admins and staff, and to any others that I may have caused concern with my words and or actions.

I have to be me,for if I'm not then I deny my own existance,my own heart and my soul. And if I can't be true to myself, then who can I be true too?

[myrmaad]

I don't know what all this is about, but you have my support.

 

 

My personal opinion is "drama is dumb"; you don't need it, you don't need people who bring it. It and they are a waste of your precious energy and thieves of your precious moments on this earth.

 

IF they are a lesson, let it be learned quickly, IF they are karma, recognize the debt is paid, IF they are a block, step over them and move forward.

[dezdimona]

I don't know what all this is about, but you have my support.

 

 

My personal opinion is "drama is dumb"; you don't need it, you don't need people who bring it. It and they are a waste of your precious energy and thieves of your precious moments on this earth.

 

IF they are a lesson, let it be learned quickly, IF they are karma, recognize the debt is paid, IF they are a block, step over them and move forward.

Thankyou,as always you support me and I value our friendship immensly!

[Stampede]

I have not seen anything on this site to warrant me giving you a warning. If somebody on this site is harassing you publicly or privately it is your right to notify one of the staff, who will then undertake to see that the matter is resolved in the best possible way.

 

Stampede

Moderator

[Aeryn333]

What ever has happened while I have been away..la

MY dear dear Dezi, as you tell me, let the others opinions ride, know that your are loved and respected by the few, who really know you, as I am, for me very few!!!!

I am not exactly well understood round these parts either love, but like you, find this place more tolerant then any I have been to, so whomever said whatever whilst I was away, with my head in the sand of pain....Know you are accepted and loved by those who care....the rest can kiss me Irish arse.....just keep on being that beautiful soul you are...

 

We all were young once , true that is....Goddess is that ever true for me...I still can be an imp at times, and still get in trouble.. lesbians ne'er get to old, thats the problem...We ne'er stop being dangerous and playing with fire..if the opportunity arrives..Well I am red haired Irish lass, and a Sagg that doesn't help matters any..lolol I also suffer from hoof and mouth disease and have here at times, and yet, those whos care is real understand and that's all that matters...la...Right!!!!! Its a good way to weed out those whose words don't match their actions...best knowing that ahead of time trust me..Those who stick by you thick and thin, even when your knee deep in shite.like I get often....only worry about what they say, no-one else, OK love????

 

Common duck, smile for me....OK!!!!! Did I get your mind off whatever someone carelessly said to you..whatever it was matters not to me, I know you, and you'd ne'er hurt anyone or do anything , that would cause harm, to anyone purposely..So relax babe...

 

Let me kiss that sensitive heart of yours, and make it better..and wee bit o' log distance Irish comfort, close your eyes, feel that..better...la.

[Dark0ne]

I've closed this thread because it isn't the proper way to go about things on these forums. These sorts of threads invariably either turn into a "praise the OP" or "bring out all the dirty laundry" thread that spark fires.

 

Yes, being open is nice but not everyone shares your openness or your willingness to be free in your sexuality, and you have got to respect that. We have very conservative and very liberal people here, and we've all got to find a way to get along without upsetting each other.

 

Communities also have police, and that's the moderators. If people feel someone has wronged them then they should use the report system, or as Dez says, use the PM system to try and resolve their issues privately.

 

I don't know the full story here, and with the amount of posts you folks make in the off-topic section day in day out I doubt any of the moderators do either!! Hehe. I did stumble upon some semi-erotic roleplaying a couple of days back that I wasn't too fond of but decided to leave it since it was a huge thread mostly populated by the same people who I thought were all friendly.

 

Please talk it through with a moderator of the site if you're feeling hard done by.